Can't decide

[Vicshalls]

I have been after my wife to get a provari. Yes, I know I should just leave her be. I just want her to have the best experience she can and besides I love mine. She has moved up from ego to a mini zmax. She has had it a little over a week and it seems like every other day there is some kind of issue. Funky error codes. Won't fire. Just something. We all know it is tax time and I am planning on getting another provari with my return. She says the provari is just too heavy. OK I get that. It is heavy. I have been thinking I should just get her a provari with a pretty wrap and surprise her with it. Then again getting her one could also cause me to end up in the dog house cause she is hell bent on not having one. Then there is always not getting it and just let her migrate to using the one I have once I get my new one. I hate for her to have a hand me down since she spent her childhood always getting the hand me downs. She deserves the best of the best and that is what I am trying to give her. So if yall were in my shoes what would you do? Run the risk of the dog house or let her migrate on her own once you get your new one? Just worried if I wait I won't have the money again for a while.

 

[Bigd432]

If she's tried a provari and still doesn't want one then don't force one on her. buy her a really good mod that she does want.

 

[TheReign]

Yeah I agree with Bigd..

If she has used your provari and doesn't really want one don't force her to get one. For the price of 1 provari you could get her two other APV that she likes/wants plus a few accessories. Have a talk with her at dinner and see what she would like to do with her next mod.

 

[CommaHolly]

I would buy the Provari and give it to CommaHolly because SHE wants another

seriously,,,,if she doesn't want one, then don't bother,,,,,,buy her what she's comfortable with.

 

[Vicshalls]

I did. I got her the zmax it just seems like she always has an issue with it. That is why I thought a provari would be a nice gift. Yall are probably right I should just let it go. I just want her to have something that just works and works well.

 

[Fergie]

I hear they really prefer diamonds

 

[swhite]

I recently got a provari mini and it seems lighter than my vamo for sure so I wonder if she might not prefer that. But, if she really doesn't seem to want one then maybe you should just tell her that you want to get her a new mod that won't have so many problems and let her pick one out online. If you have any shops nearby that would be a good place to take her so she can check them out herself. And, if someone there happens to have a provari mini she could check that out too. Good luck!

 

[keyman]

Happy wife=Happy life.

 

[Coelli]

Agreed that if she REALLY doesn't want one, don't get it for her as a surprise. Is yours a mini or a full-size? The full with an 18650 is kind of a beast (not that I didn't get one anyway, and I'm 5'2") but the mini with a smaller batter is not very big at all. Maybe if she held one in her hand she might realize it's not as bad as she thinks.

I've only used eGo style batteries and Provaris, so I can't help with recommendations on anything else.

 

[Mikie]

Have you been married long? If she says she doesn't like it, don't get her one but find out what she would like IF she wants anything new at all. In her eyes, the money could be spent for other things if she is getting by with what she has now.

In short, just because we are vape gadget nerds, it doesn't mean everyone is. It sounds like she isn't having a good experience with the zmax, so find out why. If someone gave me a Provari, batteries and a charger, I doubt I would use it much.

Having said that, give me a ZNA, battery and charger and I'm all over it. Form factor and all

 

[Vicshalls]

I messed with her zmax last night some. I have no idea why it is not working right. She was so mad about it i thought it best to not even speak. lol She likes the size and weight of the zmax. maybe when she calms down i will try and talk to her about it again.

 

[Mark Anthony]

I'd let her choose.... she may be happier with something else and as long as it works for her then that's all that matters.

 

[Tempesta]

Let her pick out what she likes. But if you can find a way to let her see a Provari Mini in the process, she might like it. There are lots of mods out there; it doesn't have to be a Provari (though you can't pry me away from mine...)

 

[GetVaked]

Just buy her one and "accidently" drop her other mod.

 

[Sucker_dad]

Just buy her one and "accidently" drop her other mod.

And never get to see the good bits again. Seriously, if she is adamant that she doesn't want one, you would be calling attention to the fact that you think her opinion is invalid. Even if you are correct, it's a bad move. Women do not like to be wrong and like to be told/reminded they are wrong even less. They control half of the money but they control all of the *****, if you get my drift.

 

[Vicshalls]

Half the time money? Try all the money. Lol she is gonna think about it since she is getting so irritated with her zmax. She has some time til the money comes in. After that she will have to wait.

 

[GetVaked]

And never get to see the good bits again. Seriously, if she is adamant that she doesn't want one, you would be calling attention to the fact that you think her opinion is invalid. Even if you are correct, it's a bad move. Women do not like to be wrong and like to be told/reminded they are wrong even less. They control half of the money but they control all of the *****, if you get my drift.

Thankfully my old lady isn't like that. We debate and agree to disagree without any needlessly evil repercussions like that. Such a sweetheart.

 

[KODIAK (TM)]

We debate and agree to disagree without any needlessly evil repercussions like that. Such a sweetheart.

I tried this reasonable approach with my wife back in '03. I've been celibate ever since.

 

[Vicshalls]

Well this morning she was having issues with the zmax. Would not fire for nothing. So of course she throws it at me tells me to deal with it and grabs my provari mini throws her tank on it and says just get me one. Lol score one for the fat kid. OK make this number two. We had this same problem with cell phones. I bought her like 5 cells phones in one year cause they were "pretty" then would get mad cause they never worked they way my "ugly" one did. Lol guess I just have to spend more money each time til she finds out I was right. Lol

 

[Southern Tina]

I'm going to a local shop to try a Provari mini today.