I just bought the 50 watt IPV2 and thought the same thing until I finally got coils built that could withstand the wattage. Definitely thought it was pointless. I was getting big clouds but the vape was very hot, and would burn after more than a few seconds, just not pleasant at all. I started experimenting with help from here, and lower gauge wires with bigger diameter makes a world of difference. I had a 32 gauge nano coil built already when I got the device, I tried it at 25 watts and it burned the wick and my throat instantly. Much better luck with 26. Through trial and error I was able to build micro coils that produce vape that is no warmer than it was with my MVP2, but much more flavorful and dense, and can hit for as long as necessary without burning.
As for being able to withstand extreme heat, if I had to guess I would say that my 26 gauge 1.3 micro coils or dual coil .7 at 35-40 watts burn with less heat than my 32 gauge nano coil did on my 15 watt mod, I feel like the gauge and resistance has more to do with heat than the wattage. Thats just my experience though, and I'm probably wrong haha.
For the OP, its all just a matter of preference. A lot of people prefer coils that don't touch, a lot of people don't. Both builds have pros and cons.