Did I do something bad here?

[blondeambition3]

Yep, an opinion was asked and I'm giving it...

Kids need boundaries so set them young. No eCigs or vaping supplies of any kind for baby.... what if he choked on a part from it? The Media would have a field day with this.

 

[SharonMM]

First of all I just want to say, I don't envy the position you are in. I know that two year olds can drive a hard bargain. I totally see your reasoning and I don't think you are putting your child in harms way. But I do think it is important to put a distinction between "kid" things and "adult" things. You wouldn't let your kid play with your power tools or your wife's jewelry. Not because they're dangerous perse but just because they can't. You know? I think your PV falls in the "not for kids" category too, but that is just my opinion.


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[Leoleoleo]

A plastic flute is a great toy for a small kid. It's even better than an old ego battery because it makes a good noise and does not attract the attention of child protection agencies. Just an idea!

 

[Dontae92]

I don't have kids but I have a niece thats around a lot. Since you can't not vape in front of you kids, maybe try letting out as little vapor as possible. It may be less visually satisfying but at least you still get the nic.

 

[GetVaked]

I vape in front of my step kids, and will vape in front of my child who is on the way.

 

[Bob92985]

Thanx for all the responses guys. Of course I was expecting to get various opinions. Some of you though could due to chill out a bit ^_^

As far as boundries go. 2 year olds are all about testing these boundaries. And yes he has them. But how many times do I try a diff hiding spot or scold him or slap hands until It's time to try something different? As far as choking hazards. Of course I've already thought of this, and I've removed all of the little plastics parts that could come off/are detachable. I know whats up.

2 year olds are also trying to fit in as people in the house as they cant effectively communicate as well as a 3 or 4 year old. So he's looking for something that makes him feel like he fits in. Around here that's video games and vaping on my end. Anything I'm doing he wants to do too. I encourage this so he can connect with his dad and feel included. When I clean my guns I give him a tooth brush and a toy gun to clean too. Regardless of how you feel about guns and what the overall moral dilemma may or may not be present in your opinion. There is no harm that can come to him.

Why would it be a bad thing to introduce things to kids that most people just want to keep away from them because they are "bad". By having him clean guns with me. He's learning that they are not blatant tools of destruction, but things to be cared for and respected. Same with vaping. If he gets ahold of a non functioning pv with no possible chance of harm. He gets him familiar with it and when he's older he can make a decision on something that he's familiar with instead of picking up a habit that may not be good for him simply because its unexplored territory.

And of course my juices are in a closed box and put up out of reach. I would hope everyone does that.

 

[cocacola31173]

As long as it stays in the house I wouldn't worry about it. When my youngest was born my 3 year old wanted a bottle too. I let her have it but only in the house...after a few days she lost interest.

 

[Malarky]

I've never had a problem with my kids getting into my analogs but for a short period when I was smoking my daughter who is 5 now and 3 at the time use to get my cigarettes off the counter and throw them in the garbage. Now that I am strictly a vaper my kids just want me to blow vapor out of my nose all the time, they say dad, do the dragon. Fun times.

 

[Bob92985]

I've never had a problem with my kids getting into my analogs but for a short period when I was smoking my daughter who is 5 now and 3 at the time use to get my cigarettes off the counter and throw them in the garbage. Now that I am strictly a vaper my kids just want me to blow vapor out of my nose all the time, they say dad, do the dragon. Fun times.

HAHA, that's great! My 4 year old does the same thing. She want's me to blow clouds so she swat at them in the air lol.

 

[DC2]

What a fascinating thread...

I'd give my opinion, but I don't have and never have had any kids.
So my opinion would probably be full of crap.

 

[Bob92985]

A plastic flute is a great toy for a small kid. It's even better than an old ego battery because it makes a good noise and does not attract the attention of child protection agencies. Just an idea!

Why is it that some people think that CPS is just peering in peoples windows waiting to find something they can bust ya for? I'll tell ya right now if I got people peering in my windows, they've got more of a reason to be nervous than I do rofl.

 

[Bob92985]

Are you serious?? This is wrong on so many levels. Maybe you should ask "Mr. Obvious"

Care to enlighten me? Or did Mr Obvious tell you to post that.

 

[SharonMM]

Bob, before you go on the defensive, bear in mind that you posted a very controversial topic and asked people to give you their opinions. How can you rightfully act surprised by the few disapproving responses you have gotten? Frankly, I am surprised this hasn't blown up yet. I saw a lady post about being berated for vaping in the same room as her cat. Personally, I think that is ridiculous.. but again, that is MY opinion. We all have them.

The bottom line is, just as you suspected, some people do not approve of you allowing your kid to play with your vape supplies. Big shocker, right?

 

[Cyia]

Got 2 small kiddos my self. My oldest is just happy it doesn't smell bad anymore. (She's turning 7 next month) and my youngest at 3 loves batting at the clouds of vapor.

My youngest, my son is the exact same as your son. I have had to put anything precious and dear to me up on top of my fridge because he will literally take my comp chair, climb onto my desk and then have full access to anything on the higher shelves. Learned this the hard way with my lotion -_-
I would just recommend to keep doing what you think is right. As far as your vamo goes, put it up where he can't reach it and don't let him see you doing it either or else he might take it as a personal goal to try anything to get to it lol.

 

[Bob92985]

Bob, before you go on the defensive, bear in mind that you posted a very controversial topic and asked people to give you their opinions. How can you rightfully act surprised by the few disapproving responses you have gotten? Frankly, I am surprised this hasn't blown up yet. I saw a lady post about being berated for vaping in the same room as her cat. Personally, I think that is ridiculous.. but again, that is MY opinion. We all have them.

The bottom line is, just as you suspected, some people do not approve of you allowing your kid to play with your vape supplies. Big shocker, right?

I think you are misreading something somewhere. I'm not offended by anything anyone has said. However in response to the post I think you are commenting on, If you are going to be that forward with your opinion, at least back it up with something. Especially if you present the opinion in a rude way. Such as referencing Mr obvious. I've been handling all of the various opinions quite well as I expected there to be a lot I didnt agree with. However it seems others werent quite as prepared to have their opinions questioned : )

 

[GraceH]

I am a former sahm of 2 ( now 18 and 20). I see nothing wrong with what you have allowed your son. Lil boys do do as daddy does. I also suspect he will lose interest after awhile. Only thing I'd like to suggest is taking the ego apart and cutting the wires and removing the battery.
Your a good father because you are concerned. And when all else fails as a parent we try something different. Which is what your doing. You have your hands quiet full. And have tried correcting him. Not all children respond to correction. My son didn't. He would be come very angry, resentful, and violent even at a younger age. So we try something different. I get it. And keep up the good work!

 

[Bob92985]

So... Other than disagreeing with the aesthetics of what is going on here. Can anyone tell me what is actually wrong with my son mimicking me vaping? I get that a lot of you dont like the idea of a 2 year old holding an ego, thats fine. But what exactly is wrong with it other than it makes you feel uncomfotable?

Bear in mind that: 1- Its a battery that no longer charges and is off
2- Does not contain an atomizer.
3- has a blank tank that i took out of the plastic just to put on there for him (ego-c tank) and has never had liquid in it.
4- has had all of the little plastic parts removed
5- He's 2yrs old and has no idea what he's mimicking other than "It's what daddy does"

 

[uba egar320]

Bob, before you go on the defensive, bear in mind that you posted a very controversial topic and asked people to give you their opinions. How can you rightfully act surprised by the few disapproving responses you have gotten? Frankly, I am surprised this hasn't blown up yet. I saw a lady post about being berated for vaping in the same room as her cat. Personally, I think that is ridiculous.. but again, that is MY opinion. We all have them.

The bottom line is, just as you suspected, some people do not approve of you allowing your kid to play with your vape supplies. Big shocker, right?

I think Bob's in the right to give what he's getting. The post he quoted was smart ......so I don't see a problem. As far as the topic...meh. I wouldn't. Why? It's just not my style. I'd just say no and put up with the 2 year old fit they'd throw ( and I know they can be tough to muscle through sometimes) until it wasn't an issue. I actually have a very demanding 2 year old girl lol. She doesn't have interest in my ecigs...but if I set it down within reach (end table..whatever) she'll pick it up and hand it to me. "Here daddy"

I don't think what you're doing is harmful in any way. But I'll side with people saying to find another route..just in case.

Good luck man! I know you'll need it. Oh, and I hear 3 is the new 2..so here's to another year of 2 lol

 

[jimrug1]

Care to enlighten me? Or did Mr Obvious tell you to post that.

Bob, first I am not trying to make a generalized judgement on your parenting practices. Only on this particular situation in which you asked for our opinions. You must have been wondering yourself or you would not have posted a question. No need to be sarcastic if you don't like the answers.

1. IMHO I can see many dangers in letting a 2 yo play with batteries that contain possibly poisonous and corrosive substances. 2 YOs will put anything in there mouths and chew on them.
2. You took out all of the parts but does that mean he cant unscrew the tank and start chewing on that?
3. The boundry issue has already been discussed buy others and rebuffed by you so no need to beat that horse any more.
4. You already stated that your son had grabbed your vamo before. You think that is NEVER going to happen again? After practicing with his new vaping toy, maybe next time he will have figured out how to get some nic laden vapor out of it.
5. Lets face it. With a few exceptions, vaping is a way for adult nicotine addicts to get their fix without many of the health concerns of smoking tobacco. I may be old school but encouraging a 2yo to emulate an addictive behavior seems way wrong.

6. BTW - I am a single dad. I have been called many names before but have never been called an over-protective parent. Personally, I can see no pros and many possible cons in letting small children play with old vaping equipment.

You have gotten many opinions here. In the end, we all have to do what we think is right for our kids. Good Luck to you and your children...;-)~

 

[Bob92985]

I am a former sahm of 2 ( now 18 and 20). I see nothing wrong with what you have allowed your son. Lil boys do do as daddy does. I also suspect he will lose interest after awhile. Only thing I'd like to suggest is taking the ego apart and cutting the wires and removing the battery.
Your a good father because you are concerned. And when all else fails as a parent we try something different. Which is what your doing. You have your hands quiet full. And have tried correcting him. Not all children respond to correction. My son didn't. He would be come very angry, resentful, and violent even at a younger age. So we try something different. I get it. And keep up the good work!

Yeah that's it exactly. I tried telling him no and letting him know i was upset with him, but all it did was make him cry when i took it (to be expected) but after several times it still had no effect, so i started slapping hands, which i hate. But that did nothing so I wasn't going to cause my son any pain by continuing to slap hands or spank him if its not doing any good. My son is as stubborn as me, if he wants something, he's going to go get it.

So i made a compromise in letting him explore his curiosity but w/o giving him anything that could hurt him.

Thanx for your advice : )