What do they all have in common? They are driving me crazy
My 18 year old son has no job, no ambition, and sometimes no respect and he is extremely lazy! He does have a high school diploma, or will have one next Thursday. When he graduates he wants to move out and get a place with a friend, thats great! Slight problem he doesn't have a JOB!!! I keep telling him he cannot get an apartment without a job, he's like "i know" but he's not doing anything about it.
This is really making my husband mad, so mad that as soon as he graduates the gloves will come off and hubby will stop playing nice. I am already stressing about after graduation, what happens if they get into an argument and he tells my son to leave? What do I do? Part of me thinks tough love might be the only way to get him to grow up but he's my baby! Sons dad is not really in the picture, he has been in Bagdad driving a truck for 5 yrs making lots of money for his high maintainance wife! That brings me to the ex-husbands wife. This is the last month of child support, as of yesterday I still had not received a check so I called her. Gee must have got lost in the mail, I will bring you a check by your office tomorrow. She came by left the check with the receptionist to give to me, CHICKEN. I take it look at it and start screaming in my head
! She has only written the check for a patrial amount of the cs, on the memo line it says "pro-rated to date of graduation" You have got to be kidding right!! Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? I called my lawyer and he said that he had never heard of that and that it was damn petty and it would cost me what they didn't pay, to get what they didn't pay, it is almost worth it though!
Thanks for letting me rant and rant and rant. My hubby was tired of listening to me...lol.

My 18 year old son has no job, no ambition, and sometimes no respect and he is extremely lazy! He does have a high school diploma, or will have one next Thursday. When he graduates he wants to move out and get a place with a friend, thats great! Slight problem he doesn't have a JOB!!! I keep telling him he cannot get an apartment without a job, he's like "i know" but he's not doing anything about it.


Thanks for letting me rant and rant and rant. My hubby was tired of listening to me...lol.