all I have to say is that you know your spouse better than any of us,,,,,,
and,,,,,,,
advice on a forum is like a Chinese buffet.
Take what you like and leave the rest,,,,,,,,you can always try something different in an hour if it doesn't work.

and,,,,,,,
advice on a forum is like a Chinese buffet.
Take what you like and leave the rest,,,,,,,,you can always try something different in an hour if it doesn't work.