I am at a bit of a loss here. I don't have a torch, and I am wondering if I can use a butane lighter? I experimented with it, and it turned it all black and sooty. Not a desired outcome so I am wondering since my electric stove glows red hot if I can oxidize it on that using that heat? I would just get up run to Wal-Mart and go buy a torch but no supplies till tomorrow wife got the car and im home with the 3 month old. Any advice would be welcomed.