The "missing them" part can be the hardest part of quitting. Im over a week in with no cigarettes. Like you I was very scared I would miss not having them. This is common, and passes very quickly. Your body and mind will realize how much more enjoyable and cost effective vaping is, and you will quickly lose interest in smokes. It's kind of like a desperate plea your brain makes for you to keep them. Just try your best to ignore it. If this is the only withdrawal your having then your already ahead of the game. Remember cigarettes are NOT your friend. Your paying big bucks to slowly kill yourself!
Alot of people recommend allowing yourself to smoke while vaping at the same time. This can be really effective, but also really dangerous. Your body will become used to the massive amounts of nicotine your getting, and if you end up going back to them you will likely be smoking more than ever. I'm by no means saying its bad advice, but from reading your post.. it sounds like you have a tendency to go back to them. If you do this to long i have heard of several cases where the person ended up smoking more, or smoking the same amount with vaping on top of it, which is no bueno.
Try to narrow down the smoking to once in the morning 1 in the afternoon and 1 at night (it can be difficult, and takes some commitment). This is how I did it. After a couple of days doing this you will crave them less and less. When your ready - take out the afternoon smoke, then eventually the evening, and the morning smoke last - since this is usually the hardest to give up. Of course everyone is different though!
Some of the best advice I have received:
- put your smokes and lighter etc in a really inconvenient place, ( like a really hard to reach cabinet ) and keep your vaping device close at hand. A little bit of laziness can be a great thing!
- keep yourself from having idle boredom time. You have the internet! theres always something to do. I like to browse and make wishlists of vaping devices and liquids etc.
- Request more hours at work. This really helped me in the beginning. Most work places don't allow you to smoke, or give you very little smoke breaks. Vaping however can usually be done whenever (if no ones looking lol) Of course some people look down on vaping as well. (non smokers always have to have something to ..... about, I hear second-hand vape is a killer..)
- if you feel even the slightest crave for a cigarette. Vape. Vape until the pain goes away. This can make a huge difference if you can stick to it.
- try to keep the money and health aspect of quitting smoking a constant reminder, Take a sticky note write a rough number for the cost of your last months cigarette expense and pop it somewhere it can constantly remind you ( on your computer monitor, the front door, etc. After you get the right vaping setup, i would guess and adverage cost monthly to use it is around 50$. Thats what I've paid this month and I think I hav emore than enough e-liquid and replacement heads for 2 months. this expense usually go's down the longer you have been cigarette free as well.
- get a pack of AWFUL tasting cigarettes, and throw out the
enjoyable ones. The worse they taste the better. Virginia slims would be a good example lol. tucked inconveniently in your highest kitchen cabinet of course.
- Have support!! This forum and its members have been an incredible asset to kicking my habbit. Post your progress, how you feel, withdrawal symptoms, and keep up updated! Your not in this alone, and theres a ton of people here that did the exact thing you are doing now.
- and most of all be proud about your quitting. Your not only saving money, and years on your life. You are ( quite noticeably ) improving your quality of life. Even in the short amount of time that i've been off them, has made a DRASTIC difference in my energy, motivation, and happiness. Things that were such a pain like taking out the trash and or having to find a parking space @ the grocery store, general chores etc.. have become alot less taxing for me. And things that are usually enjoyable for me (fishing, video games, sex...lol, etc) are much more enjoyable. Not only because of the health and energy boosts, but also the freedom from being a cigarette slave.
i've used all of these, and after only a week i have absolutely no intention of going back. i'm done with them. 9 years of my money and life That could have been put to much better use.
Of course at the end of the day, it comes down to - how bad do you really want to quit?
Sorry for the wall of text!
I wish you the best of luck in your transition, Keep us posted
