well after chaging, I didn't charge it until it stopped charging because I have read not fully charging and discharging batteries increases their life, I get 4.07 4.12 and 4.04 volts. not sure how good or bad that is but they don't seem to be balanced to me.
I would recommend as a general rule to get a good 4 bay charger and charge the batteries externally.
The RX200 may just charge each battery individually up to 4.2 volts which is what the external charger will do.
In your case you stopped the charge cycle so differences in the batteries may account for the differing voltages you are seeing. Had you let it complete they most likely would have been very close in voltage. Unless the RX200 charges the batteries in one series string and not individually which is a bad thing to do with LI batteries.
I really do not know how exactly the RX 200 charges. Safest to remove and charge.
Fully charging li batteries will not appreciably shorten their life and the mod will shut down before over discharge.
Storing fully charged LI batteries will shorten their life. If storing for any real length of time then they should be at about 3.5 volts for maximum life.
If you do have a charger that only charges up to 4.0 volts I would use that function as it will lengthen the lifetime of the battery somewhat.