If you are preparing a nice dinner for both of you your husband should do all the cleanup including washing all the dishes, my wife and I have that agreement and like you I wash and clean as she cooks so there's only plates ,knives,forks and glasses for the final cleanup. I look at it this way it's a partnership where one cooks and one cleans, if I did the cooking I would expect her to do the cleaning. I am always the cleaner because my cooking is so bad, I burn water LOL.