We will be trying to avoid things and shaking it up a bit? We never know what the holidays will bring as far as emotions....the first year after my nephew passed we all left the state during the holidays...last year my daughter had us over for the first time, this year I will be spending the day with my sister doing whatever she wants to do....she only had the one child, even at 22, yes he was a child....Friday night we may have some turkey at her house...but we're trying to do everything non-traditional....not sure if this will ever go back to the old normal. Happy Thanksgiving everyone
Tracey
T, that is wonderful what you're doing with your sister. She's gonna need you for a long time to be able to cope and grieve during the holidays. It took me about 3-4 years where I got back to "normal" with the Holiday spirit after my Bailey passed. I get it, Totally get it. I'll be thinking of you, your sis, and nephew during the holidays. I know your nephew was a lot older than Bailey, so it's not the "same", but yet it is the "same." If that makes any sense. I wish I could give you and your sister big hugs and hang out with you during Thanksgiving. <3
xoxo,
Dani