I just want to go on record as saying that I have many friends in this thread and irrespective of how things pan out between them, I am neutral (when I can be).
See, I have lost friends in issues with vendors before and it was upsetting to me. Basically, because I questioned a certain vendor (actually a few vendors), that in turn ...... off fellow consumers of that vendor that were formerly friends of mine. I am not saying this is the same situation, but I know that not all things can ever be totally understood without both parties speaking on the matter--and sometimes it still won't tell the whole story. I just want it to be known that I consider JF a friend and that customer. That doesn't mean that I totally get what happened and why, but I know what it feels like to have either done something wrong, been misinterpreted for doing what I thought was legit, or a little bit of both.
You have every right to do so and I respect your choice.