One of my good friends has been going thru hell lately.
(background: she is a 32 year old bartender for a music venue in Atlanta. She started college just stopped going because she didn't know what she wanted to end up doing. She had a drug addiction for a while but overcame it.)
she made a horrible mistake last year and got a DUI.
she just recently got a speeding ticket.
she just found out that she is pregnant. (and she wants to keep and have the baby (I support her in this but...))
her apartment burned to the ground last night!!!!
she has nothing!
Just the clothes on her back and the money she made last night.
I know she made mistakes:
not keeping her money in a bank (or a firesafe I guess if she doesn't trust banks)
and not having renters insurance (which is supper inexpensive)
Why does the world always seem to penalize people who are trying to clean up their acts.
what she wanted:
to work at the bar for a few more months to save money while looking for a more mommy and school friendly job.
to be able to get an education and a job in order to properly support her child.
I know I am missing stuff in this post.
I really just don't know what to do for her.
We've already offered her a room in her house (even before her apt burned down last night)
My other half has offered to help her financially (I don't have the ability to at this time)
she has offers from tons of people.
none of it make up for her loss or how stressed she is right now.
I wish there was a right scenario
a way to say this is exactly what you have to do to get your life back.
my mind bumps on so many things
should she have a baby right now?
I knew it was going to be hard before but now...
Oh Maggie, I love you to death girl. I wish I could really help, wish I could make it all go away.
(background: she is a 32 year old bartender for a music venue in Atlanta. She started college just stopped going because she didn't know what she wanted to end up doing. She had a drug addiction for a while but overcame it.)
she made a horrible mistake last year and got a DUI.
she just recently got a speeding ticket.
she just found out that she is pregnant. (and she wants to keep and have the baby (I support her in this but...))
her apartment burned to the ground last night!!!!
she has nothing!
Just the clothes on her back and the money she made last night.
I know she made mistakes:
not keeping her money in a bank (or a firesafe I guess if she doesn't trust banks)
and not having renters insurance (which is supper inexpensive)
Why does the world always seem to penalize people who are trying to clean up their acts.
what she wanted:
to work at the bar for a few more months to save money while looking for a more mommy and school friendly job.
to be able to get an education and a job in order to properly support her child.
I know I am missing stuff in this post.
I really just don't know what to do for her.
We've already offered her a room in her house (even before her apt burned down last night)
My other half has offered to help her financially (I don't have the ability to at this time)
she has offers from tons of people.
none of it make up for her loss or how stressed she is right now.
I wish there was a right scenario
a way to say this is exactly what you have to do to get your life back.
my mind bumps on so many things
should she have a baby right now?
I knew it was going to be hard before but now...
Oh Maggie, I love you to death girl. I wish I could really help, wish I could make it all go away.