There is no learning without failure. To learn, you have to be prepared to fail, over and over and over again, and be willing to address your failures, and not via a participation trophy either. You have to correct, be corrected, remain open minded, and when you fail, pick yourself up and dust yourself off, and be armed with the knowledge that with each failure, you have also learned something.
I believe this is conditioned DEEP within the human brain (I mean, look at kiddos learning to ambulate, that is basically the process of failing, over and over and over again) and getting up and trying again anyway.
I believe in many of our cultures and societies, the idea of failure is frowned upon, not to mention a WHOLE lot of stuff. I raised my kid as "old skool" minus harsh discipline, and he has remained an autodidact his whole life.
I see people apologizing for their dumb questions, giving up when they are 99% there (and I've done that too on occasion) but I'm like if you are a learner, you need to NOT be worried about your self esteem, you need to not be worried about failing (YOU WILL) and you need to remain curious and open minded and the really successful vapers on here in WHATEVER sphere, be it DIY or WHATEVER, they continue to work on improving their skills, they help each other, they freaking answer newcomers questions because of a general love of learning. If you have truly mastered something, you are often well equipped to teach, because you have mastered the process of LEARNING and experimenting.
This is what makes ECF great. And, if you are humble and open-minded, you are ALSO a good teacher.
I mean, my kiddo was such a speedy little middle school thing, so when I found out his public school did not have PE or recess (there's currently a bill changing that ATM) I immediately put him in an arts and charter school, and I was pretty sure he learned 0 math, but if you are an autodidact, you can teach yourself ANYTHING. I truly believe this. But making kids sit at desks like robots is just cruel and also QUASHES any desire to learn, grow, improve and etc. I remain glad I did it.
I wish that "to learn is to fail, over and over and over again" were stated each morning like we used to have to salute the flag. Teachers should encourage experimentation and failure if you ask me.
Anna