I was 15 years old and smoking behind their backs. So very bad Vaughanie! Foolish, rebellious youth that I was...
Well yes, and the male is known to be more violent generally.
One of my favourite lines is assumption is the mother of all ****-ups!
I suppose you can usually tell if people are in the gay venues that people gather in and people are admitting upfront about themselves on internet profiles etc
On the street of course, its hardest unless its a known area. But even there people will look back and return friendly glances etc. (or come up and punch you no, I jest J!!)
Much harder now that there are less men walking down the street dressed like the leatherman from the Village People <g> Oh, those halcyon days!
I guess, personally, Im as sexually predatory as they come, lol - but I dont bother with whats unavailable to me in that sense (although some guys do and wont take no for an answer which just strikes me just plain rude when the other person is being the social liberal)
Maybe look at this another way - Do you come on to women you know who don't fancy you? (though perhaps such creatures are difficult to find in your case
