...smoking the cigs very fast - one pull very quick after another and find I still do that, I don't think that translates very well to vaping, perhaps that is destroying my clearomizers?
Yup, that'll do it. Long, slow drags is what you want to achieve. Everybody is different, but keep in mind you are heating stuff here, so you cant just take 20 or 30 long drags back to back without an adverse effect on your unit. Long and slooooooowwwww

Dripping is for professionals....Vaprofessionals?
Keep it up!
Edit: and ya, check out a local B&M, most of them will let you try flavors and/or buy sample sizes. Tasty Vapor is ten blocks over from my office