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The luckiest woman in the world
is the one who has found a man who understands her mind,
and who knows her heart,
and shares her soul,
in this way he knows all the good and the bad about her,
and he is so wonderful that he still loves her anyway -- !!!!! 8-o
is the one who has found a man who understands her mind,
and who knows her heart,
and shares her soul,
in this way he knows all the good and the bad about her,
and he is so wonderful that he still loves her anyway -- !!!!! 8-o
This I totally aggree on....The luckiest woman in the world
is the one who has found a man who understands her mind,
and who knows her heart,
and shares her soul,
in this way he knows all the good and the bad about her,
and he is so wonderful that he still loves her anyway -- !!!!! 8-o
Knowing her mind is hard but knowing her heart must be done to have a long and fruitful relationship. Thats why I say just nod and aggree and try to never argue (think what you want to say), because a womans heart should always be soft and warm...because once a womans heart becomes cold she will never be the same. And learning this will make you more of a man. If she nags then there is a reason for it... because her heart is not getting what it needs. Put her mind at rest and the heart will tend to itself.
Most women that shop a lot (for absalute useless crap) is trying to get comfort outside the relationship. Reasons for this is due to her not getting comfort and love that she needs... remember this....
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I thought since I am happily married and I have such a perfect husband I would ask him this question. He said, Never argue with a woman give her anything she wants until it is something very important to you the don't back down an inch. 8-o8-o8-o
He is in trouble now. I expected wonderful words of wisdom and this is what I got. I am just in shock. Maybe I will forgive him but not until next week or sometime. 
He said, Never argue with a woman give her anything she wants until it is something very important to you the don't back down an inch. 8-o8-o8-oHe is in trouble now. I expected wonderful words of wisdom and this is what I got. I am just in shock.
Maybe I will forgive him but not until next week or sometime. 
Imeo-Sound as if you give too much and ask for little in return, if anything. If she is just nag nag nagging and all you hear is the wah wah wah wah waaaaahhhh, (charlie brown comic strip)then you sir are s.o.l.
Of course it could be the same in reverse. Do you even hear one another?
Of course it could be the same in reverse. Do you even hear one another?
I thought since I am happily married and I have such a perfect husband I would ask him this question.
He is in trouble now. I expected wonderful words of wisdom and this is what I got. I am just in shock.
Smart man. I use the same approach.
I never cheat friend. Am I an exeption? xaxaxa, I dont think so Vaug
Me neither...I let the wife watch
Don't treat women as chattel, you don't own them, only in your heart and their heart if you are both deserving.
I come home from work, my husband asks about any problems, I really don't want to explain because his answer is not understanding of my dilemma or ready for a discussion of different approaches, he just wants to go punch the guy or tells me to tell so and so to #$%^ off. That isn't what I want, I want understanding and a discussion, two minds better than one. If I were to respond to his dilemmas at work the same way by just TELLING him what to do, he wouldn't open up to me. We all want an understanding of our dilemmas, however trivial. I admire men who think they need to SOLVE any problem their wife or child has, but I love and admire a man who understands the problem and has "suggestions" on possible solutions. Whichever solution fits the wife or child, something they are comfortable with applying. You guys are our hero’s but we're not always looking for heroes, we're looking for an equal partner.
You and we both have strengths and weaknesses, as partners lets use them to the best possible solution for our family unit.
I come home from work, my husband asks about any problems, I really don't want to explain because his answer is not understanding of my dilemma or ready for a discussion of different approaches, he just wants to go punch the guy or tells me to tell so and so to #$%^ off. That isn't what I want, I want understanding and a discussion, two minds better than one. If I were to respond to his dilemmas at work the same way by just TELLING him what to do, he wouldn't open up to me. We all want an understanding of our dilemmas, however trivial. I admire men who think they need to SOLVE any problem their wife or child has, but I love and admire a man who understands the problem and has "suggestions" on possible solutions. Whichever solution fits the wife or child, something they are comfortable with applying. You guys are our hero’s but we're not always looking for heroes, we're looking for an equal partner.
You and we both have strengths and weaknesses, as partners lets use them to the best possible solution for our family unit.
The problem here is that there is no "typical" woman, at least, that I have found and I have been around the track more than a few times. The best formula that I have found is to list all of the characteristics to which you are attracted and stay away from any woman possessing these.
I thought since I am happily married and I have such a perfect husband I would ask him this question.
He is in trouble now. I expected wonderful words of wisdom and this is what I got. I am just in shock.
Let the man in peace, dont touch him and DONT NAGGIN TO HIM
Women want to be heard. Not have you fix it but, perhaps gives us some insight.
Good point, wise words. I was like the man that gives all the time without asking for something, just waiting for the same. But now that I stopped this, things changed. No nagging any more.
Why you do this? Why people do this the most of time? And why the worse man is the man that is bountied? I dont get it , there is something I miss here
Exactly. Just understand us and listen, don't fix it or at most lead us to how to fix it, OURSELVES.
It's funny, I learned a lesson the last 48 hours. I've lost my voice, really. Can't say a thing to my husband (don't you know he's happy). But what do you think happened? He ventured out and tried on his own to do things that might be pleasing. I didn't indicate or ask for a thing. So perhaps the point about DO NOT NAG, you may actually get more!
Men dont suit with women. The reason to me is very simple. They are so different that there is no way to meet each others needs. They just try to live together and they take what they need from the other person
Not always the case, I had rather spend time with my wife of 20 years than anybody else.
Oh that's sad. We are different, the good and bad. We have strengths and weaknesses and we come out on top as a team. Think back to some of your happiest moments, your most sentimental moments, the moments you'll never forget, wasn't she there???
I think men and women are preetty equal....both have insecurities that need to be secured by thier partner daily to stay happy - example
man-tightens muscles to stretch to show off muscle so women notice it
woman-tightens stomach when walking by so men WONT notice it
man-after fixing something around the house - gripes if deed goes unnoticed
woman-feels/expresses being underappreciated when cleaning goes unnoticed
THEn theres the factor sometimes that the man works and woman stays home w children and doesnt "work"
man- "Ive worked all day Im not helping around house after work"
woman-"Ive been cleaning up after children ALL day and dont want to cook/clean again so since ur home will you help?"
man often says no-he tired but fails to realize woman is tired too from working all day, just doesnt get paid to do it
So, I think both have feelings and venting at days end and sometimes one feels like the "do more" than the other-not considering the other ones daily routine, therefore causing communication issues.....Understandable to say the least but once you realize this, and both pay more attention to BODY language of partner, one will see its nnot that ur so DIFFERENT, its how you want ur insecurities and feelings handled that really different btwn men and women
Find ur partners insecurities, find the way they feel comforted and BINGO!...Well, until they have a new insecurity/feeling, then u gotta figure those things out all over again 
man-tightens muscles to stretch to show off muscle so women notice it
woman-tightens stomach when walking by so men WONT notice it
man-after fixing something around the house - gripes if deed goes unnoticed
woman-feels/expresses being underappreciated when cleaning goes unnoticed
THEn theres the factor sometimes that the man works and woman stays home w children and doesnt "work"
man- "Ive worked all day Im not helping around house after work"
woman-"Ive been cleaning up after children ALL day and dont want to cook/clean again so since ur home will you help?"
man often says no-he tired but fails to realize woman is tired too from working all day, just doesnt get paid to do it
So, I think both have feelings and venting at days end and sometimes one feels like the "do more" than the other-not considering the other ones daily routine, therefore causing communication issues.....Understandable to say the least but once you realize this, and both pay more attention to BODY language of partner, one will see its nnot that ur so DIFFERENT, its how you want ur insecurities and feelings handled that really different btwn men and women
Find ur partners insecurities, find the way they feel comforted and BINGO!...Well, until they have a new insecurity/feeling, then u gotta figure those things out all over again
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