haha thats love like there! what a lucky man lol. i think my cartos are cheap knock offs. the more vids i watch on you tube the more i notice everyone having to use paper clips to take off the silicone mouth piece. mine has a lip so it doesnt quite go all the way in and can easily be taken off with a fingernail. both condoms have a small plug which plugs the whole which one video said not to use. use the condom w/o the plug. i can easily cut it off but was intrigued as to why mine came with two plugs. also many vids show a plastic washer under the silicone tip whearas mine doesnt have one. silicone tip, a small gap, and then the doghnut ring of filler. not sure its going to matter but its was only 8 bucks for the empty 5 pack and still by far out performs my blu carts. so im happy nevertheless but next time around might get them from a different source. where do you get yours?