Convincing my girl

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HauntedMyst

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Dump her. Dump her now! Dump her hard and dump her fast! She's controlling and overbearing and not concerned with your happiness!


Then you'll be all like "I'm vaping and I'm happy and now I can find a new girl"

Then she'll be all like "Man, I wish I was less lonely and overbearing"

Then you'll be like ""Hey, I'm vaping, happy and this new hot chic I am dating is hot"

Then she'll be like "Hey, now I'm all like lonely and stuff cuz I was overbearing and controlling and stuff"

Then you'll see her at the mall and be like "Hey, how you doing? I'm doing great! This is my new girlfriend. She's an 8 and your just a 6 and we're gonna get married and you will like die lonely and alone or married to some drunk and live in a trailer park"

Then she'll be said and wished she had let you keep vaping.

(None of this advice applies if she super model hot or wealthy. You can put up with a lot of crap for super model hotness or wealth. If she is both and still wants you, forget it, your done with and have no ace to play)
 
The sentiments echoed here are outstanding. You are choosing to pretty much nip the smoking issue in the bud. I look back at my smoking duration and it was something that took hold for nearly 15 years. There has been times when an ex would tell me that she didn't like smokers or that she would be disgusted by it and I paid it no mind. Well, I would be receptive by not smoking around them but choosing to continue the smoking as if it were only sacrificed in the company of significant others. That is indicative of someone who was cold to the idea of change. It seems that you are going through this with your girlfriend. It is nearly impossible to change someone unless they're willing to change. By this premise, you have decided to change from analogs to vapors. That is a step in the right direction and if she does care for you, she'll come to accept it. I know that my ex gf never accepted my struggle with smoking and that was one of the issues that unfortunately lead to our break-up. However, hope there is someday an understanding.
 

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What rules?
My sister can smell tobacco so much that she wouldn't let me smoke in her garage after she got my brother-in-law to quit. She claimed she could smell smoke pulling into my driveway with my house shut up (more of a mental issue if you ask me, but that's how bad she is).
With ecigs I vape at her table after eating. She either can't smell it or can smell something but it's not bad.
I can't imagine a need for rules unless someone is hyper allergic to the flavoring or PG/VG. (My niece and I have rules about my sister's air fresheners and it's known that we are allowed to unplug them at our discretion.)

I understand keeping the peace and compromise, like I'd be willing to go into a different room to vape (and have at my brother's when I needed to produce clouds) but I won't go outside in the dead of winter. I almost liked that but I need to know what the rules are first.

I should keep some fish on hand for those times when my roommate cooks broccoli. :)

Well my wife is embarrassed when we are out in public and I pull a mod out and vape. She has asked me to stealth vape when with her. I'm cool with that. I vape just as much in public with or without her. At home she asked me to keep the vaping to the office for the most part but never to vape with my Daughter in the room.

I can respect that too. Its all good. Plus at 4 years old I don't need to explain to my daughter what all the 'smoke' is coming out of my mouth.
 
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