Life is so unexplainable at times, we all live within the same perimeter of time. So while you walk into one building, you see the happiness and laughter of an event that brings joy. Then you walk into another where there is much sorrow. You have days when the most wonderful thing has happened to a friend/family member while you turn to another friend/family member and they have the most crushing news.
I love them them all and I struggle with expressing the joy that is deserved for the one situation and the tears and shock of the other. Both emotions are sincere and felt deeply. I can only celebrating with tears of happiness or feel sorrow in my heart.