deejStuff Is Here!! (Part Four!)

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Hiya Clowderpeeps! Happy Cinco de Meow-o!

I've got the burritos, jalapenos, salsa and shredded cheese in the fridge, a bag of tortillas, but unfortunately only about 1/3 bottle of tequila. Guess that will just have to do. :p

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I'm just on my way to bed this time of day ... well, I have to stay up 'til 8am to make a phone call today, but normally I'm going to bed about 6am. Just always been a night owl, now that I'm not working, I figure why fight it? I function much better when I'm awake if I honor my circadian rhythm.

Have a great day .. don't eat too many enchiladas :)

I've been contemplating myself, about just throwing in the towel and accepting my fate. Lately, being unemployed and now just recently getting on to disability, I've been trying to avoid the stigma of being the "lazy bum that sleeps all day". So I've been trying to keep what most people consider normal hours.

But I too have always been a night person. In fact the last 8-10 years of working have always been at least 2nd shift or some combination of odd hours that included evenings & weekends. Living behind a bar for 15+ years helps too, not from the access to alcohol but rather the not trying to be asleep during the nightly 2am to 4am-ish closing and cleanup fracas. Room darkening blinds and blackout curtains help too. :laugh:

With this whole trying to be "normal" thing, I find myself falling asleep while at the computer or watching TV. I also seem to be building up quite the little sleep debt since I rarely sleep through the night. But now that I've successfully traversed all of the phone calls, doctor visits, paperwork, etc to get on disability maybe I can just say "screw what others think" and get back to a more normal (for me) type of schedule.

For years I got along just fine working til midnight, then gaming til 4am, watching a little TV in bed til about 6, then getting up at around 2pm. Thinking back now, it was only after I broke that routine that I started feeling tired all the time and putting on weight. Hrm...
 
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Happy birthday to my sister.

I've always had a problem getting to bed before 2 am. So I've given up and am much happier. There are some downsides to it:

1) When you do have to be somewhere before noon, it's brutal getting up on time

2) The number of companies that ignore the National Do Not Call Directory seems to increase exponentially every month. I have one that seems to call at 9:01 at least twice a week. And it's hard to get back to sleep after glaring at the phone, waiting for the ringing to stop.

3) If I don't get at least 6 hours, thanks to the above, I tend to pass out for two hours in the afternoon after which it's even harder to go to bed for the night before dawn.
 

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Happy birthday to my sister.

Happy Birthday Poeia's sister! Today would have been my brothers 48th birthday (we lost him in 2000)

I've always had a problem getting to bed before 2 am. So I've given up and am much happier. There are some downsides to it:

1) When you do have to be somewhere before noon, it's brutal getting up on time

Schedule things first thing in the am (8am) It's easier to stay up a couple hours than try to get up for an noon appointment.

2) The number of companies that ignore the National Do Not Call Directory seems to increase exponentially every month. I have one that seems to call at 9:01 at least twice a week. And it's hard to get back to sleep after glaring at the phone, waiting for the ringing to stop.

Turn the ringer off! If it's important, they'll leave a message. Also, put a note on your front door that says "Day Sleeper, knock only if it's absolutely necessary!"

3) If I don't get at least 6 hours, thanks to the above, I tend to pass out for two hours in the afternoon after which it's even harder to go to bed for the night before dawn.

Yeah, every few months, I'll get messed up and when I'm off my "normal" schedule, my entire life is "off" I try really hard to stick to what I know works.

I think it's very important to honor what your body wants. Everything else just seems to fall into place if you do. Don't worry about what others think of you, they aren't living inside your skin, they don't know what is best for you, the individual. Not being a sheep (and doing your own thing) is the only way to be happy! Be grateful you are one of the "odd" ones! I know I am!

:) cleo :)
 

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Happy Birthday Poeia's sister! Today would have been my brothers 48th birthday (we lost him in 2000)



Schedule things first thing in the am (8am) It's easier to stay up a couple hours than try to get up for an noon appointment.



Turn the ringer off! If it's important, they'll leave a message. Also, put a note on your front door that says "Day Sleeper, knock only if it's absolutely necessary!"



Yeah, every few months, I'll get messed up and when I'm off my "normal" schedule, my entire life is "off" I try really hard to stick to what I know works.

I think it's very important to honor what your body wants. Everything else just seems to fall into place if you do. Don't worry about what others think of you, they aren't living inside your skin, they don't know what is best for you, the individual. Not being a sheep (and doing your own thing) is the only way to be happy! Be grateful you are one of the "odd" ones! I know I am!

:) cleo :)

I can't turn the phone off. Dad's 95 and not in great health and, as the daughter who lives nearby, I'm the first contact. They have to call for every little incident or fall. Last year, before they read the riot act and told him he had to get rid of the rugs and some furniture or move downstairs to the nursing home, I was getting calls more than once a week. It has gotten a lot better since then.

And staying up doesn't help. When I go to visit him I get up at 10 to catch a noon-ish train and don't get home until around 10 PM. That's not staying up "a little late."
 

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Ahh yeah, real life, damn, it just keeps interfering with our plans. Having to care for an elder is difficult, I know. Just remember, unless you take care of yourself first, you aren't much good to anyone else! But you do what you can, right?

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I can't turn the phone off. Dad's 95 and not in great health and, as the daughter who lives nearby, I'm the first contact. They have to call for every little incident or fall. Last year, before they read the riot act and told him he had to get rid of the rugs and some furniture or move downstairs to the nursing home, I was getting calls more than once a week. It has gotten a lot better since then.

And staying up doesn't help. When I go to visit him I get up at 10 to catch a noon-ish train and don't get home until around 10 PM. That's not staying up "a little late."
 

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Ahh yeah, real life, damn, it just keeps interfering with our plans. Having to care for an elder is difficult, I know. Just remember, unless you take care of yourself first, you aren't much good to anyone else! But you do what you can, right?

:)

It's not bad on me (although I do like to complain.) He's moved to a great continuity of care community 8 years ago. He was in independent living -- his own apartment, with a kitchen, etc. until 2 years ago when he moved to assisted living. The people there are great which makes it so much easier.
 
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