Being someone who has lost a few, and kept a few, my thoughts are with you and your family. It is rough, but be strong, and be strong for her too. So sorry to hear of this I may I suggest a donation bucket on your site? I am not interested in receiving the winning place, but giving back to you! I don't know if she is a working woman or stay at home mother, but bills piled up a lot with my father when he went through treatment. And I would like the chance to help someone that may be in need. I am not the religious type, but my thoughts are with you and yours.