Agree with jblack 100%. Most of the worry of soldering is exposing electronic components to too much heat. The whole idea is to pre-tin any wires, pre-tin any board pads, and heat-sink anything that is sensitive to heat damage. With a 30 watt soldering iron (or preferably a temp controlled soldering station), you have enough heat to quickly solder most board level connections. If you find that a connection will not solder within about 7 seconds, give it up, and try later. Let it cool down. Have a soda, and figure out how to make a solder joint in five seconds or less. Most good connections are made in about two seconds. The biggest problem you will likely find is an 18 gauge stranded wire to a huge solder plane on a circuit board. That will take 7 seconds, or you may need a much hotter iron. But even then, pre-solder the wire, and the board area. Good luck, my friend.