My kids are 4-footed and furry. I never wanted 2-footed kids of my own either. I'm so sorry that you regret your decision Ego (((hugs))). For me it was the right one, and i don't regret it at all.
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Thankyou so much for the hugs CES I am well aware that people have completely satisfying lives without children All I am saying is ....before it is too late...please reconsider...If you are perfectly content without children ...then more power to you....thats great
I am at a low point in my life...being 45, quitting cigarettes, hormones going crazy, and having spent 2,5 years in a relationship with a psychopath...a pathological lier...who used and abused me...and finally told me I was a stupid b.... for believing in him.... probably does not help
Now I have found vaping thank god....I had to join the vapaholic group
....so many funny gadgets....so many flavours...this hobby is a lifesaver in more ways than one..(.allthough a financial catastrophy )vape on
I'm sorry you regret your decision. I came to a point in my life where I had to make choices. First off, I'm egging ever closer to an age where the likelihood of the child having issues is higher if I have one. Second, it isn't something I spent a lot of time worrying about. I take care of my parents, I'm trying to get on my feet, it wouldn't be fair to bring a child into the equation if I can't care for it the way I should. I won't even buy a pet fish because I can't afford a decent tank! Besides that, kids aren't my thing. I don't do well with them, they don't like me, and I do my best to stay away from them because it's never a comfortable situation. There's a lot of things I want to do with my life that I never got a chance to do, and for me having a child means I'll never get to do those things. The hope of someday getting to do those things is what keeps me getting out of bed every morning.
Thankyou for your kind words Wolf
How wonderfull that you have so many things you want to do in future....that is what its all about....having aspirations and something to look forward to.....to have a dream
In Scandinavia where I live...women have their first child between age 30 and 38 !!!! This is due to the fact that we have looooong educations up here...and then we are all employed by the state
No...I will never mention having kids again..trust me on that ....(just thought I would mention...that my mother was babysitting before having any children....and those kids just hated her guts however the children she finally gave birth to, at age 34 ....still love her very much
And this ends my attempt to influence anyone on that subject
Oh by the way...I just love this little chainvaping smiley ha, ha, gonna do it again and once more LOL
How wonderfull that you have so many things you want to do in future....that is what its all about....having aspirations and something to look forward to.....to have a dream
In Scandinavia where I live...women have their first child between age 30 and 38 !!!! This is due to the fact that we have looooong educations up here...and then we are all employed by the state
No...I will never mention having kids again..trust me on that ....(just thought I would mention...that my mother was babysitting before having any children....and those kids just hated her guts
however the children she finally gave birth to, at age 34 ....still love her very much And this ends my attempt to influence anyone on that subject
Oh by the way...I just love this little chainvaping smiley
ha, ha, gonna do it again and once more LOL- Status
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