I am so happy I could cry.

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Automaton

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I'm not a pushy person. But when I started getting into e-cigs, the first thing I did was tell my dad. He is now 59 and has been smoking (minus a few years he quit... because I begged him to as a child) since he was 14. He was interested in trying it. So I stretched my dollars, and got him set up.

My dad and I have always been close. His cough scares me. I want him to be around for a while, and he is surprisingly healthy... but how long can that last, the way he smokes? His lungs sound bad. He wakes up in the night, coughing.

So I got him some Kr808 stuff, along with the stuff I got with my first purchase.

I kicked the cigarettes on the first day.

My father didn't.

In fact, after the first day or two, he never touched it again. It's been 3 months now, and 2 of the 5 cartomizers he started with are still in their blister packs, unused.

Since then, every now and then I would tell him about new stuff I'd tried, trying to get him interested again. It never worked. I didn't push. I know how much I hated being pushed, so I let it go.

Today, my dad picked me up from the train station after I got back from the Michigan vape. And I came back with all kinds of goodies he'd never seen before.

He got a little curious, and on a whim, I handed him a 510 with a 306 atty and a drip tip. And Snickerdoodle Cookie juice, of all things.

He took a drag and his face lit up. He loved it. The juice, the form factor, and surprisingly, he loves the idea of dripping. He vaped that little atty dry, and now I am vaping some PG through it to clear it so he can try RY4.

He's begging me to get him 510's and atties and drip tips now. Begging me.

He gave me back the Kr8 stuff I got for him, and eagerly awaits his dream set-up. A 510 with a 306 atty and drip tip, and a PCC. Snickerdoodle Cookies and Coffin Nail juice.

I guess it's not a success story yet. I mean, it's not success until you put down the analogs, right?

But to me, this feels like a win. I didn't want to be that pushy, sanctimonious ex-smoker. I didn't plead with him to quit, like I did when I was a child. I just let it go. Because that seemed like the grown-up, respectful thing to do.

But the look on his face when he got his hands on that 510 almost made me cry.

I want another 25 years of having my dad around. And if a 510 can help give me that, and give him that, I might just explode with joy.

Two days ago was my 3 month anniversary of giving up cigarettes. Happy quarter-year quit to me.

Love,
Cassie
 
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Automaton

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Thanks everyone. Yeah, I never knew it would make such a huge difference. I seem to like most of the stuff I try - I have favorites, but any of it could have worked for me. The only things I hated were LR's.

And my dad turned out to be so particular. It's the 306 *in particular* he likes. He's lukewarm about the 510 atty. Lukewarm about the Kr808 cartos. And just LOVES the 306. So weird. And so glad I had him try it. We are all so different. It makes me really glad I got so involved (or possibly obsessed lol) with vaping. If I had just stopped with the Kr8, which I still love and works well for me, my dad probably never would have tried something as esoteric as dripping.

Lisa B - Yeah, it was great! Lots of nice folks in the mitten state. That's actually where I got the Snickerdoodle my dad is so in love with, :)
 

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That is wonderful Miss N!!

I'm currently on the other end - 52 years old and trying to get my 28 year old daughter to try vaping. Sent her an ego kit the other day with a couple flavors of juice. She got it Friday and said she "played around with it" but hasn't had time to 'really try it'. Will be DYI'ing it soon and hope to send her mucho juices - maybe she'll find the right one and it will work for her like it did for your dad!

Patience is a virtue...but I want it right now!
 

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That is wonderful Miss N!!

I'm currently on the other end - 52 years old and trying to get my 28 year old daughter to try vaping. Sent her an ego kit the other day with a couple flavors of juice. She got it Friday and said she "played around with it" but hasn't had time to 'really try it'. Will be DYI'ing it soon and hope to send her mucho juices - maybe she'll find the right one and it will work for her like it did for your dad!

Patience is a virtue...but I want it right now!

I know the feeling. I kept wanting to beg him to try something, but I didn't... maybe that paid off. He's a stubborn man, just like his daughter, heh.

The good thing is, when it's the other way around... she has a little more time. Whatever damage she may be doing to herself now can mostly be undone if she quits in the next few years. She's just gotta want to do it, and find something that gives her that "Oh... this is awesome" look on her face, like the one my dad got.

I also feel very indebted to this community. I do a lot of trades and PIF'ing, but I've also been given a lot of stuff to try from vapers I've met, and the vape meet I went to this last weekend. I never would have thought to buy a 306 myself. I don't drip all that often and 306 carts are useless, lol. But someone gave it to me to try, and low and behold, it's the holy grail for my dad.

Without the people here, I wouldn't be as hopeful as I am right now that maybe he can finally quit.

He looked so cute vaping my bedazzled, jewel-tipped 510 with a little bitty 306 on it. :lol:
 

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Well done i know it can be very hard trying to get through to the stubborn people, i know because i'm the same but after years of nagging from my wife about smoking i knew i had to do something at first it was hard but having different flavours of liquid to try it held my interest. i think that is the key and keep up the encouragment it goes along way.:thumb:
 

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That's great, MN! I hope your dad sticks with it!

Congrats on your three months, too! Today was the first day of my 4th week. And here I sit, just after lighting a cigarette for the first time in a long time, to try to get the taste of blackberry out of my tongue and throat. And it tastes just terrible (the real cig)! :)

Exact same thing happened to me about the same time as it's happened to you. Man they taste horrible, don't they? Haven't had a cig since then.
 

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Great job mistress..

I actually been off analogs for three weeks now..

A few hours ago, I bought a pouch of drum tobacco.. I guess I felt like I was "missing something"..

I rolled a ciggie and lit it up.. It's just disgusting, really disgusting..

I don't enjoy it anymore, I can feel the "cancerous" stuff in the smoke..

Now, I just finished writing this while vaping..

Smoke is disgusting, harmful, stinky, crappy, stupid, etc..

I'm using my prefilled cartomizers until I get some liquid for my 510 :)

I want my $9 back.................. LOL
 

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Firt off-- CONGRATS TO YOU! I wish you the best. I lived for the old analogs for 35 years, then I tried my daughter-in-law's mall pv she had given up on. I tried it, and wondered why they had spent several hundred on it?!?!? That's how i fell into ECF. I ordered my eGo based on reviews here. Since then, my life has made a complete 180. I am no longer the "outcast" of the scout troop when we camp every month. I can breathe. I can taste food and smell my surroundings again. My wife loves the fact that i no longer snore, despite going thru EXCRUCIATING pain associated with sleep apnea surgery years ago.
The 1 suggestion i would make wopuld be to upgrade to the eGo battery if Dad sticks with it. I vape like i smoked--"a lot". I understand the atty he likes is 510 compatible. The eGo upgrade will allow him to vape into tomorrow between charges! Sounds like a great Christmas present!
Here's to you and your dad vaping together for many happy holidays to come. Hopefully i can have similar success with my son!!
 

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Firt off-- CONGRATS TO YOU! I wish you the best. I lived for the old analogs for 35 years, then I tried my daughter-in-law's mall pv she had given up on. I tried it, and wondered why they had spent several hundred on it?!?!? That's how i fell into ECF. I ordered my eGo based on reviews here. Since then, my life has made a complete 180. I am no longer the "outcast" of the scout troop when we camp every month. I can breathe. I can taste food and smell my surroundings again. My wife loves the fact that i no longer snore, despite going thru EXCRUCIATING pain associated with sleep apnea surgery years ago.
The 1 suggestion i would make wopuld be to upgrade to the eGo battery if Dad sticks with it. I vape like i smoked--"a lot". I understand the atty he likes is 510 compatible. The eGo upgrade will allow him to vape into tomorrow between charges! Sounds like a great Christmas present!
Here's to you and your dad vaping together for many happy holidays to come. Hopefully i can have similar success with my son!!

Congrats to you too!! So glad to hear you're doing well. :)

I suggested an eGo for my dad, but he is *very* insistent on having it as small as possible right now. Maybe he'll change his mind in time, but for now baby steps. I'll make sure he's got a few 510 batts and a PCC. That should do for now.
 
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