If I Can Stay Quit During That . . .

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JudeD

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I've always had a lousy sense of timing. Truly. If I worked and saved for something for months, when I finally got it, it was popular for about two more days before everyone else moved on to the next great thing I couldn't afford.

So it's not surprising that I decided to quit a thirty year smoking habit two months before hosting my daughter's wedding.

Besides the fact that we were expecting 230+ wedding guests, I was also having major construction done on my house (two bathrooms and a powder room gutted and rebuilt along with living room and dining room) and that construction wasn't completed until days before the wedding. I had also agreed to cook for about fifty people a few days before the wedding and cook for over a hundred people at my house for a post-wedding party the day after the wedding. What was I thinking?

The good news--not only did everything turn out beautifully, but I didn't slip and light up an analog during the whole stressful time. I was exhausted, overloaded with details and problems, running from early morning until very late at night, surrounded by people who make me crazy under the best of conditions (his family and my family) and yet, vaping totally got me through without even a desire to open that stale pack I have sitting in a drawer. As a bonus, it was a lot easier to slip into a bathroom and vape during all the festivities than it ever would have been to find a place to have an analog. Plus, I smelled like my perfume instead of cig smoke.

So I haven't been around to help newbies for a few weeks because I've been in wedding mode, but I'm back and ready to offer support and tips whenever I can. Thanks to all who helped me get to a place where vaping got me through one of the most stressful times of my life.

One down, three more daughters to go. Yikes. :p

Analog free since May 4th.
 

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As a bonus, it was a lot easier to slip into a bathroom and vape...

Well, you were my hero (I have three married daughters) up to the above sentence...
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Just kiddin'. Kudos for pulling all that off!
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Sure wish I was 'bakky free for my girls' celebrations...
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JudeD

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Well, you were my hero (I have three married daughters) up to the above sentence...
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Just kiddin'. Kudos for pulling all that off!
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Sure wish I was 'bakky free for my girls' celebrations...
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Seriously--I was looking for bathrooms, closets, utility rooms, walk-in freezers, anywhere to hide from our family members with or without my PV. I did vape in the bathroom, but mostly it was just nice to take a moment away from the craziness to collect my thoughts and not have someone asking me for something.
 

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Seriously--I was looking for bathrooms, closets, utility rooms, walk-in freezers, anywhere to hide from our family members with or without my PV. I did vape in the bathroom, but mostly it was just nice to take a moment away from the craziness to collect my thoughts and not have someone asking me for something.

Since ya put it that way, I totally understand and empathize now!
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Seriously--I was looking for bathrooms, closets, utility rooms, walk-in freezers, anywhere to hide from our family members with or without my PV. I did vape in the bathroom, but mostly it was just nice to take a moment away from the craziness to collect my thoughts and not have someone asking me for something.

I'm sure I speak for many smokers/ex-smokers I used to use analogs for exactly that a break from stress. I didn't realize this when I first started vaping since I didn't have to go outside to vape. I took a break from vaping for awhile and started smoking again because I couldn't ESCAPE the stress (go outside and gather my thought's). I had a co Worker that decided that since I didn't have to go outside to smoke. That I didn't need breaks she would go out on hour long smoke breaks and leave me to do all the work. in an 8 hour shift she only "WORKED" 4. One day I was so fed up with her that I bought a pack of analogs went out side and smoked half of them cursing her the whole time. I learned that when vaping you need to still go take a break and get away to gather your thought's or you will go back to analogs since having to go outside and to a smoking area is a good excuse to get a break.
 
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