I would purchase a large, handicap accessible house. A house large enough for my parents and my husband's parents to live in with along us. One that is large enough that we are not constantly running into and over one another, yet small enough to still be considered as a 'family home'. Perhaps with separate 'apartments' in the home?
I'd want this house to be sitting on a few acres, 5 at most, where we could have some lovely gardens. One for food, one for daytime scent and beauty, and another for nighttime scent and beauty. Oh, and a heated pool! All of the parents are mobility impaired and swimming would be excellent exercise for them....
*sigh* a girl can dream...
~Tiger