Jules' FYIs

[Jules22871]

Thanks everyone. he's asleep right now.
the house is ready with the O2 machine, emergency tanks
& portable tanks. they will be doing the biopsies next week.
neither one of us is handling this very well.
we have been each others rock for several
years now so i wait for him to sleep before i cry.

i've orded lots of extra attys & with all the tobacco
flavors coming in maybe we can get him off the cigs.
he says he's ready to try sso keep your figers-
crossed. i'll keep you updated and tnanks for all
the thoughts & prayers. keep 'em coming.

 

[Vermonster13]

Get whatever rest you can.

 

[Cyia]

-gives you huge hugs- I hope all goes well and he takes to them well. I know what you mean about the standing stones for each other. My husband and I are the same way. I'll keep praying for him and you and your family hun.

 

[btngchck]

Jules take a deep breath. I hope when he sleeps you have the opportunity to let it all out, that's when you can regain the strength you need. I am praying for your husband and you.

 

[sensay]

Jules you and hubby are in my thoughts and prayers! I wish I could do more!! sending so much love your way!!!!!!

 

[smilin0117]

You both are in my prayers!! Be sure to take care of yourself too--sometimes we forget how important that is. BIG HUGS and GOOD THOUGHTS!!

 

[markfm]

Be good, Jules -- everyone's thoughts are going to you and the DH.

 

[Jules22871]

OMG, I don't know what I'm going to do. The think he has lung cancer that has spread to his liver.
I wait till he sleeps then cry my eyes out. He's been a part of my life, one way or another, for over 13 years now.
He is my best friend, my rock, my comfort, my lover, how can I handle losing him.
My heart feels like it is being ripped to pieces. I can't fix this one with a bandaid and I just don't know what to do.

 

[Satharra]

OMG, I don't know what I'm going to do. The think he has lung cancer that has spread to his liver.
I wait till he sleeps then cry my eyes out. He's been a part of my life, one way or another, for over 13 years now.
He is my best friend, my rock, my comfort, my lover, how can I handle losing him.
My heart feels like it is being ripped to pieces. I can't fix this one with a bandaid and I just don't know what to do.

Jules, take some very deep breaths, darling. I know it's hard to deal with right now and difficult to think there is could be any other solution but death. I promise you that there are solutions. Some may work and others may not, but there are multiple treatments out there for stage IV cancer. In many cases, they've gotten fairly advanced that most are able to manage cancer as a chronic disease, much like diabetes.

Talk with your doctors. Find out what solutions are available and keep the faith.

 

[mini_art]

Jules,
I have walked in your shoes. There is much hope. Many times now it can be fixed.
I know you believe in miracles , I do too. Keep the faith. We are praying for you both,

 

[Jules22871]

We're both home for now. They, of course, have more tests they want to do but thought he was well enough to come home. We have the tubing long enough that he can get anywhere in the house he needs to go without any problems.

Thank you to everyone for your thoughts and prayers. Keep 'em coming. I am a firm believer in faith in a higher power. You don't survive what we already have and not believe. The VA here is very aggressive in treating any cancer but especially lung cancer. If they don't do what they should they will have to deal with me and I can tell you that they already know how mean I can get when it comes to Hubby.

Give me a couple of days to re-group and get my hip calmed down and I will start working in getting all the BBB I've promised out the door. Sorry, but hubby comes first and that got me even more behind.

 

[Jules22871]

Duplicate post.

 

[asharp22]

I'm sure you've read this in everyone else's posts, but we can wait on the BBB! just get better!

Prayers and thoughts of health headed your way!!!!

 

[Jules22871]

Edit: Off topic

 

[Lorizgal]

. We all know that health concerns and family come first. Especially when the two are the same. Take care of you and yours, NO worries from me on the BBB and stuff. I will wait because I know your family is more important that PIF........mine is also. Take it easy and don't worry, on. Your promise to me can wait, until all is better and you are less stressed, I am okay with waiting JUles. Take care of you and yours and don't trip on the O2 tubing, like I have done so many a time.
Love ya lady, you and yours in my heart and mind, my prayers and thoughts.

 

[Jules22871]

I'm just one of those people that worry about things. I think that may be part of my stomach issues. I stress over everything.

MyShell, your words and feelings mean a lot to me. Thanks so much for them!

 

[smilin0117]

Please Please take all the time you need in getting your family settled. PIF is not important right now. We are here for you--but we dont need you to do anything for us....let us do for you!!! Just worry about your family Jules!! Take care of yourself!!

 

[Ravens Rose]

Jules... what is important right now is the health of you & your Hubby. Everything else can wait. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your hubby. Stop worrying about the PIF and focus your energy to your family. If there is anything I can do... please don't hesitate to ask & I will do whatever I can.

 

[Sallana]

Edit to remove off topic things.

 

[DemonCowboy]

We're both home for now. They, of course, have more tests they want to do but thought he was well enough to come home. We have the tubing long enough that he can get anywhere in the house he needs to go without any problems.

Thank you to everyone for your thoughts and prayers. Keep 'em coming. I am a firm believer in faith in a higher power. You don't survive what we already have and not believe. The VA here is very aggressive in treating any cancer but especially lung cancer. If they don't do what they should they will have to deal with me and I can tell you that they already know how mean I can get when it comes to Hubby.

Give me a couple of days to re-group and get my hip calmed down and I will start working in getting all the BBB I've promised out the door. Sorry, but hubby comes first and that got me even more behind.

Jules, what did i tell u about even MENTIONING BBB before you said everything was as it was going to be and it's back to business as usual?!?!?!? it looks like i'm not alone here in thinking u shouldn't give stuff like that a second thought until u'r as sorted as can be again. so stop it already, WE, your CURRENT members of PIF are telling u to NOT worry about it and take care of u and u'rs first. now for a little tough love i guess: if i see one more time you apologizing about stupid juice before you say everything is back to as good as it's going to get and u'r getting back to business as usual, then u can cancel any you plan to send me. i think WE ALL care about u deeply and the last thing ANY of us would want is for you to worry about something as trivial as juice when u'r going through a crisis, and i care about u enough that i'll be DAMNED if i'll b any part of that. so take care of u and u'rs first. when u say things are back to as good as they're going to get THEN worry about the trivial things.

that said, remember my PM i meant it when i said to not hesitate if there's ANYTHING i could do to help u in any way - and by anything i meant anything in my physical human power, insight, or realm of influence or whatever - nothing too big, nothing too small, i consider you a good friend, and i look out for my friends.