Man.. There's a fair bit wrong here.
You gotta go find someone, whether it's at a B&M or a friend or something, to explain to you a LOT of little details about building/firing an RBA. It's an advanced vape, and you REALLY need to know what you're doing in order to do it safely and effectively.
You said, "How do I make my ohms higher? Also how many ohms is a bad reading and could lead to a giant fireball? Haha"
You make your ohms higher by rebuilding your coils. More wire = higher ohms. .3 ohms is a pretty comfortable spot to be on a mech mod (in my opinion, your experience may differ), but if you're getting hot legs/hot spots, it'll never be a comfortable vape. Additionally, what type of cotton are you using? You mentioned that you boiled it. With Japanese cotton, and most organics, this is really not necessary.
An unsafe ohm would be anything lower than .2 (in my opinion, some other people are brave/stupid enough to build lower than that). At .2 you're gonna be going over your amp limit on your batteries (assuming your batteries have a 20A limit). Again, this is something an experienced vaper needs to explain to you in-person ideally, with multiple batteries so they can show you the differences.
Listen man, you can get all the advice in the world from guys here, but really you need to meet up with some other vapers who can sit down and give you a good little lesson on all the little details and things to think about. It's really important that you vape safely.