So it seems like I keep piecemealing things, and since I brought up the subject of special needs people, I'm just gonna give you the rest or at least as much as I'm thinking of right now in one big post.
After the fire, Lisa spent two weeks in the hospital in South Bend before they said there was nothing they could do for her there. They sent her to a children's rehab center in Indy. At that time she was semi-comatose as a result of a brain injury, and the prognosis was that she would most likely never walk or talk again.
My job would have been perfectly fine giving me as much time off as I needed but you need to get money from somewhere, right? So as soon as my surgeon (well, just realized I lied, there's more to tell about that too, but not in this post) gave me the OK to drive, I went back to work.
The next
three months were spent with me living out of one hotel, and Pam living out of another. On weekends I would drive down to Indy. It took a month before Lisa 'woke up' and a couple more weeks before she was starting to eat. By the time she was released she was walking, feeding herself, dressing herself, and talking, though not nearly as well obviously as a normal 9 year old.
There was significant therapy even after she came home but she progressed much farther and faster than even the doctors in Indy thought she would. She is however never going to be 'normal' the way some people use that word. She is classified as mildly ......ed, her speech is sometimes difficult to understand, especially when she's excited, and from a maturity level she seems sort of stuck at kind of an early teen level.
Today she lives in what I can only describe as an independent living community. It's not like a typical group home. There are two special needs residents in each house with a steward who is there mostly to assist. but the residents all have to work and are primarily able to live an independent life. When Lisa decided she wanted to be an adult and move out of the house, this seemed like a good arrangement because it let her have the independence she wanted while still having some level of supervision, just not as stifling as a group home would have been.
As Garrison Keillor said, and know you know the rest of the story.