I guess my kid was touched this wked. What steps do I take to do somethig aout this my 4 yr old wa...............
by a 14 yr old.......
what do I do?
by a 14 yr old.......
what do I do?
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And do you believe the kid when he says the older kid s@@ked on his penis? I know he's never seen it on the net. I do. So, the child care provider is out of the loop now.
If you plan on filing charges, get an attorney. He will help you in reporting it to the proper authorities.
I'm so sorry for you and your son. This is a horrible thing to go through.
I'm so sorry for you and your son. This is a horrible thing to go through.
It doesn't matter who they are.
Call the cops, NOW.
This isn't something you should be talking to people on an e-cig forum about, it's something you should be talking to the D.A. about.
Call the cops, NOW.
This isn't something you should be talking to people on an e-cig forum about, it's something you should be talking to the D.A. about.
i have to agree with terra here it don't matter about who is was ,or who they were to you Call the police report them so they don't continue to do it when they are older from what you said there is a ten year difference between the child and person. think of it this way what will happen when they turn 18 will they be doing it to 8 years olds get that taken care of now.
The Wiz!
Well now that's disturbing.
Everybody who is saying CALL COPS NOW needs to think about the precarious social universe of a church. Making it more public than it needs to be could be a mistake. However, you definitely need to take action.
I'd talk to a cop and ask about public disclosure, etc.... this world is tough enough for a kid, if he were mine I'd want to avoid having him labeled as "that kid" by the little jerks at school/church.
Hate to be devil's advocate, but just something to think about.
Everybody who is saying CALL COPS NOW needs to think about the precarious social universe of a church. Making it more public than it needs to be could be a mistake. However, you definitely need to take action.
I'd talk to a cop and ask about public disclosure, etc.... this world is tough enough for a kid, if he were mine I'd want to avoid having him labeled as "that kid" by the little jerks at school/church.
Hate to be devil's advocate, but just something to think about.
This almost sounds like someone has bumped their head here...CALL THE POLICE, before he gets another kid...The disclosure with children is protocol not to release names...Predators are multiple offenders at any age...Let the profesionals sort out what is right and wrong....Dont wait, evidence is time sensitive..Again dont worry about the church or anything else CALL THE POLICE...If you dont you are an accesorie to a crime of the most hideous nature...
And think about the fact that if you don't go to the police and he hurts another kid, you could have prevented it. And do you want your kid to one day tell his therapist that he told the people who were supposed to protect him and they were too concerned about other people's feelings to do anything? I'm sorry if that sounds really harsh, but this kid has to be stopped. How many other kids has he done this to who were afraid to tell anyone. Be grateful your child trusts you enough to come to you for help and do everything you can to stop this from happening to anyone else. In addition to calling the cops you need to talk to a child psychiatrist and find out what you need to do to help your child deal with what happened. The last thing he needs right now is to think that this is in any way his fault and as parents we just aren't equiped to help our children get through something like this without help.
Moonflame put it very accurately, although mildly.
To put it bluntly -
The babies that get molested after this incident is your fault now, if you don't call the cops. There is no question.
And when you find out a few years from now, when this kid has graduated to kidnapping children, raping them, and killing them - and you did nothing when you could have stopped him - how will you feel?
I'm sorry to be so blunt. And what happened to your son is horrific. Now you need to act like a parent, and do what needs to be done.
To put it bluntly -
The babies that get molested after this incident is your fault now, if you don't call the cops. There is no question.
And when you find out a few years from now, when this kid has graduated to kidnapping children, raping them, and killing them - and you did nothing when you could have stopped him - how will you feel?
I'm sorry to be so blunt. And what happened to your son is horrific. Now you need to act like a parent, and do what needs to be done.
No lawyer needed, call 911 and the cops will come to your home in no time.
I really do not understand why you are even asking...................
It's your child., You need to protect him/her.
Jeez........................
I really do not understand why you are even asking...................
It's your child., You need to protect him/her.
Jeez........................
People who worry about what the neighbors think and hear.. are the problem with society. My wife worked for the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and when churches and neighborhoods start saying well it's a NICE family, the criminal behavior is allowed to grow until someone get's REALLY REALLY REALLY hurt.
It does not matter if it's your uncle or your dad or your spouse. Call the cops.
I can't even begin to understand how you are even able to sit down and think about this!!!
If that EVER happens to either of my kids, I will be visiting them with a baseball bat and then calling the cops (and denying the baseball bat thing) and having him/her arrested! There is no excuse for that. I am not a religious person at all but I dont care if they are friends, part of any social circle or a family member! Wrong is wrong! Call the cops, file charges, get a lawyer NOW!
If that EVER happens to either of my kids, I will be visiting them with a baseball bat and then calling the cops (and denying the baseball bat thing) and having him/her arrested! There is no excuse for that. I am not a religious person at all but I dont care if they are friends, part of any social circle or a family member! Wrong is wrong! Call the cops, file charges, get a lawyer NOW!
This may be the most ridiculous thing I've ever read in my life.
1) CHILD MOLESTATION!! Hello?! Who gives a rat's fuzzy sack about "the precarious social universe of a church". People would have to worry about "the precarious state of my bullets not currently being lodged in someone's aorta"
2) Both parties involved are minors and, as such, any information regarding this issue will not be a matter of public record. That having been said, WHO CARES?! The only record I'd be thinking about would be the Guiness world record for the worst beating put on a human being.
3) Worried about how the ASSAILANT gets labeled? Wow...really...wow. Did that just happen?
My god...
Cops.
Call them.
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You can start with the Pediatrician. They will contact the proper authorities. You need to make sure that this child was not physically harmed and then make sure that the older boy NEVER does this to another child!!! Church or no church. You HAVE to follow through with this!
I'm sure that no matter where you live there is more than one church around.
Either way, I would burn down any building church or otherwise if it was my child's safety at stake, let alone worry about social consequences. REPORT IT. NOW. Your child will thank you in the future I promise you.
Either way, I would burn down any building church or otherwise if it was my child's safety at stake, let alone worry about social consequences. REPORT IT. NOW. Your child will thank you in the future I promise you.
Seriously... your child says something like this and you think "Oh I wonder what I should do, let me ask the e-cigarette forum what to do" because you're not thinking about calling authorities? Worried about someones label? Worry about your own label when someone finds out and then you become the evil that gets all the **** for not contacting anyone about something like this. You then become the problem also and most likely will have your kid taken away from you. Maybe you shouldn't have become a parent if you don't know what to do when you're child is put in this kind of situation. To me I thought it was common sense.
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