Hi there, I'm also from Hampshire, and my story is similar to yours as you van see from my join date.
Back then I struggled with the inconsistency of the products, and spent time looking at tea bag mods for cartridges etc. but it all got too much and the analog use was just too easy.
This year I have found a juice I love (the variety is so much better), and the systems that work for me.
I use an ecab at home and when driving, and an eroll for social situations. They are tank/atomiser systems, and both are discreet enough for me to use without being self conscious. I haven't felt the need to upgrade to vv, vw, prothingy etc.
I am down from over a pack a day to maybe 2 cigs in a week, smoked a few puffs at a time. Not sure I even enjoy those, but its easier for me to say I can have them if I want them than to say never again.
I don't take cigs out with me any more, and that is such a big thing to drive three hours or more, without any cigarettes with me, and no urge to buy any. I think this time it will work after 30 years of cigs.
Good luck, and hope it works for you too.