Losing my best friend of 12 years

[oxygen thief]

Found out this morning that he has two big tumors in his belly. I'll take him back to the vet when it's time to let him go. I'm not handling this well. My boy Jules is the best. You get so attached to these guys. Thanks for reading. I'll finish my nervous breakdown now. This is harder than losing people because pets rely on you for everything. And you rely on them too.

 

[SilverBear]

Losing a pet is so very very difficult. I'm not sure what else to say here... but enjoy him - and spoil him rotten - until he tells you that it's time. Give him a lot of ear skritches and tummy rubs.

 

[TinyTimberGal]

Sending you warm thoughts and hugs...

 

[El_tecolote]

I have been there times more than once. Jules will wait for you at the Rainbow Bridge. You are showing him the greatest act of your love for him. He knows.

 

[oxygen thief]

Thanks everyone.

 

[CandyTX]

I am so so very sorry. Much love going out to you. Losing a pet is very difficult, they really are family members. xoxo

 

[Fergie]

My heart goes out to you, we lost our dear friend 5 years ago last month, never forgotten.

 

[Lisa66]

The orange ones are just different from the rest! Love and peace to you and your friend.

 

[Elantis]

Heartfelt sympathy coming your way. Jules knows and you will know when he is ready, but till then he also knows he is loved.

 

[Iffy]

Wow, kinda tuff reading my screen now... been there, done that... and it all still hurts!

I still miss ALL my dear four legged creatures.

BTW, Jules looks much like my KC (Kitty Cat, original, right?) that adopted us as a young feline...

... and was the last furry buddy I buried (six years ago).

If you're young enough, I recommend 'saving' another buddy and let your ol' past furry friends rejoice in knowing that that another 'brother/sister' will cuddle with ya!

 

[Chimney34]

So sorry you're having to go through this! It's very difficult! They aren't pets they are family!! Some of the best family to have! Sending prayers your way!!

 

[CES]

I'm very sad for your loss. But glad that your best friend had a wonderful life with you.

 

[HauntedMyst]

I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is but based on your sorrow, I'm sure you gave him a wonderful life. Our cat Clark passed on 8 years ago and it was a huge loss. The wonderful memories stay forever though and your smiles return when you remember all the great or goofy things he did.

 

[kiefurs]

Sorry to hear that news..I've been there within the last 6 months with my faithfull companion...I had my dog Jack for 12 and a half years and lost him in november... nothing ANYONE can say will make things easier on you and no advice will change your opinion..You just have to know when the time is right and know in your heart that you're doing the right thing.

The bond between you and Jules will never be broken no matter what the outcome

Wishing you strength my friend

Keith

 

[candik]

So sorry you are losing your friend. Anyone who has ever been gifted with the love and trust of any living creature will always have their life enriched. Not being able to share that love in the day to day is painful. But I truly believe, hearts and spirits live on and so will the joy of the time you've shared together. We lost Zeus, our python not quite a year ago. He may not have been quite as cute and cuddly as a dog or cat, but he was family. Someday we'll get another I'm sure. Maybe you can do the same and let another find a place of love with you.

 

[zoiDman]

Man... Very sorry to hear that right now.

Our Cat has slowed down over the last 6 months. Just wants to sleep and hard for her to jump up on things she used to. The Vet says she is just Old.

I'll think some Really Good thoughts for both you and Jules.

 

[starr1349]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Losing your pet is losing a member of your family and a hard thing to do. Will keep you in my thoughts.

 

[oxygen thief]

Thanks very much everyone. When I was trying to wake up and see how Jules was doing this morning I thought he would be in the living room. When I finally opened my eyes he was laying on a pillow next to me. My eyes opened and he was looking right at me.
If he has a soundtrack in his mind it's Barry White and Teddy Pendergrass. All love.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rV9VuPkIIv4

 

[SilverBear]

The orange ones are just different from the rest!

We adopted our first-ever orange tabby in 2007. Big BIG boy currently at 25 pounds. He came from an abusive household (they did an at-home front declawing and the vet said he had both his shoulders dislocated at some point) and it took quite a while before he purred or showed any kind of affection. The abuse has made him be able to only walk - slowly - no jumping or running. And he does not play.

All that said... there will now ALWAYS be an orange fella in the household, even after he leaves. We have never had a more loyal cat.

 

[oxygen thief]

That was a big cat! Jules hurt a hind leg jumping through a fence years ago. I think he weighed 16 pounds and the vet said he needs to lose weight, I wouldn't want you giving him two insulin shots a day. I tried I really tried to feed less etc and he would have nothing to do with it. I finally gave up and he did fine. But I made him fat and if(probably) I get another cat down the road apiece I'll feed him less.
I think Tabbys are the best.

I don't understand why people hurt animals. There are just a lot of s***heads out there. Good for you to take on Mother Theresa job.