Loveline: Am I too open and honest.. with women? WWYD?

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i was totally against "organized religion"...didnt grow up with religion at all. i hated the "concept" of church. UNTIL...i found "cowboy church"....where one can truly "come as you are", muddy boots, spurs, hunting clothes, dirty overalls, bring your dog, smoke if you want to (outside) with lots of other smokers (though i dont smoke anymore, but did), enjoy country music, feeling free to get up during service to go to bathroom, take the dog out, go smoke or whatever...........LOVE IT! i not only go every sunday, i even go to bible study during the week! would have NEVER EVER in all my 45 years thought i would be saying this!

Absolutely agreed.. I always hated religion. Always. I was all for being spiritually full of faith and always hated religion. The church I went to had well dressed businessmen and it had bikers and it had, well, just about all kinds of people. It was a good church, till it sold out... It was too bad, too, the man who built it did it out of nothing. Then sold it out when the money got the better of him.
 

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DEEP IN THE HEART OF TEXAS!
i recommend finding a cowboy church! we dont even pass the bucket...it's left in the back for those who want to tithe.
and we have our own rodeo arena!


Absolutely agreed.. I always hated religion. Always. I was all for being spiritually full of faith and always hated religion. The church I went to had well dressed businessmen and it had bikers and it had, well, just about all kinds of people. It was a good church, till it sold out... It was too bad, too, the man who built it did it out of nothing. Then sold it out when the money got the better of him.
 

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i recommend finding a cowboy church! we dont even pass the bucket...it's left in the back for those who want to tithe.
and we have our own rodeo arena!

Sounds good.. I don't really go to a church, any more ..... I've gone to some black churches a few times in the past few years, and those are pretty good .. Maybe if I go again I'll go to one like you're talking about. If I can find one!
 

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Oh and am I a sucker if I'm willing to buy my own plane ticket to see #A? I never buy my own tickets.. And feel like kind of a trick for doing so.... How much of a sucker would I be? Or feel like?

/sigh

A man pays for his own plane tickets. And pays for his own meals and fun times. Dude, you gotta put on your big boy panties and grow up.
 

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/sigh

A man pays for his own plane tickets. And pays for his own meals and fun times. Dude, you gotta put on your big boy panties and grow up.

It's not about growing up, it's about being a sucker or not being one. Out on the streets being "grown" includes the fact that you've learned not to throw money at scandalous females. They don't get a dime of yours. You know, I HAVE partially reimbursed women before when they've taken good care of me.... And I've even supported one I loved for several years - traveled her - put her in my home... etc..... but as a rule, I am just not going to be one of those clowns who spends on random women.

I'll give you an example. Go out somewhere to some stupid club sometime and see what suckers men are. Last time I was at a club, I was sitting there talking a guy I'd been playing cards with.. he was trying to hit on the ladies and all of this.. buying drinks... A couple of sluts sat down and were talking to the twos of us and I said something that was offensive, something about not coming to a "place like that" to find someone to go out with (and I was dead serious) .. anyway he tells me "Man, you got to be nice to 'em!!" .... well after he spent at least $100+++ buying drinks and "being nice" he went home - by himself - in a cab and I ended up sitting with a nice woman having an interesting conversation laughing a the guy who thought he could buy drinks into a woman. I've never slept with her, and doubt that I will, but I still know her to this day.

I'm sure that guy and other men who spend a pile of money on women end up inside of some of them some time.. but personally I don't do that and my women will do things those women don't even know how to do.. and they'll appreciate being intimate with me, and not ever be like a normal woman who thinks being intimate is some kind of favor she's doing for a man

I just ain't going to be any kind of a sucker paying for everything.
I could charge for being with me and if I wasn't such a sweetheart of a guy, I would.
 

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I would:
1) adopt a dog from the shelter
2) find a good church family
3) spend some time alone, doing some introspection, re-evaluating your life, what is important to you, where you want to be, what you want to accomplish.
i will pray for you

We discussed him getting a dog in another thread - not a good idea for him. It seems his opinion of dogs and women are both very low.
 
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We discussed him getting a dog in another thread - not a good idea for him. It seems his opinion of dogs and women are both very low.

I've had enough of ...... saying my opinion of women is low.. and now I have one saying I have a low opinion of dogs. Go get the thread and show me where you say I expressed a low opinion of DOGS. People like you and that other guy are the reason our government is what it is, today.
 

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I guess I can give an explanation.

This thread which may have started out in fun ,, seems like it is already going down the road of bashing and lashing out insults. A few parties involved may see the humor in it, but from experience threads like these start getting personal real quick and rather letting emotions fly and adding work for staff, and taking them away from nabbing spammers... the thread was closed.


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