Loveline: Am I too open and honest.. with women? WWYD?

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cozzicon

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I would:
1) adopt a dog from the shelter
2) find a good church family
3) spend some time alone, doing some introspection, re-evaluating your life, what is important to you, where you want to be, what you want to accomplish.
i will pray for you

1. Great idea.

2. Better to find real loving friends (whether they are in church or not)

3. Excellent idea.

4. God has a plan for everyone, better you pray for yourself. Praying for someone else, well it's nice, but it ignores the reason you are here. If you want to do something for him.. wash his car and tell him what a real woman wants. Actions are prayers, and faith without works is dead.

How Buddhist of me.
Peace.
 

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I would:
1) adopt a dog from the shelter
2) find a good church family
3) spend some time alone, doing some introspection, re-evaluating your life, what is important to you, where you want to be, what you want to accomplish.
i will pray for you

I've been a Christian man all of my life.. my faith started to weaken sometime in '08 and has gotten weaker since.. There's only so long I can be down with something/someone and be left for dead, that can only happen so many times before you stop believing in someone/something.... But I do miss being a man of strong faith, very much.

I think you're right about the time alone. I think time alone is what I need. Here's the biggest thing. In business, I've caused hardships for other people and not allowed myself to feel a thing about it. I learned to be made of stone when it came to business. I still have that in me.

What I need to do, somehow, is apply that to parasitic loved ones. Be able to leave them to their own devices, and live for me, and not be consumed by concern for them at every waking moment.
 

THE

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Sit at my feet grasshoppa... for I can teach you the meaning of life.

I don't care about the meaning of life, you hippie clown, I care about the effect I have on people who are close to me and I care about survival and I care about being able to live with who and what I am.

I think you're a tool, and that is the second time I've ever used that word for someone in my whole life.
 

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I don't care about the meaning of life, you hippie clown, I care about the effect I have on people who are close to me and I care about survival and I care about being able to live with who and what I am.

I think you're a tool, and that is the second time I've ever used that word for someone in my whole life.

Tha man has no sense of humor.. I'm out.
 

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DEEP IN THE HEART OF TEXAS!
i was totally against "organized religion"...didnt grow up with religion at all. i hated the "concept" of church. UNTIL...i found "cowboy church"....where one can truly "come as you are", muddy boots, spurs, hunting clothes, dirty overalls, bring your dog, smoke if you want to (outside) with lots of other smokers (though i dont smoke anymore, but did), enjoy country music, feeling free to get up during service to go to bathroom, take the dog out, go smoke or whatever...........LOVE IT! i not only go every sunday, i even go to bible study during the week! would have NEVER EVER in all my 45 years thought i would be saying this!

I've been a Christian man all of my life.. my faith started to weaken sometime in '08 and has gotten weaker since.. There's only so long I can be down with something/someone and be left for dead, that can only happen so many times before you stop believing in someone/something.... But I do miss being a man of strong faith, very much.

I think you're right about the time alone. I think time alone is what I need. Here's the biggest thing. In business, I've caused hardships for other people and not allowed myself to feel a thing about it. I learned to be made of stone when it came to business. I still have that in me.

What I need to do, somehow, is apply that to parasitic loved ones. Be able to leave them to their own devices, and live for me, and not be consumed by concern for them at every waking moment.
 
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