Thank you T, Lisa, ~A and Jason. I'll extend everyone's condolences to David's (extended/immediate) Family (you too Cuz as I know you'll post soon.. lol)
I wish all of you could have known David. What a devoted Husband and Father he was. So quiet, gentle and reserved. Many people weren't aware he could even talk he was so quiet, but there were times when he would talk at length.... and he'd tell the funniest (and cleanest!) jokes & stories. I will always remember fondly the night he and Sandi took me to see Randy Travis and John Hagee at World Harvest Church in Columbus... he just talked the whole time he drove and everyone in the Car was laughing. I remember thinking to myself 'When quiet people finally talk, everyone listens'... lol. Well, for someone like me, (who never shuts up), that's pretty deep.
PS - For those of you who didn't know. David and my sister-in-law Sandy were married 42 years. David was a born again Christian but a notorious chain smoker. (I tried getting him to
vape kids... it was a no go, he just gave me that Mona Lisa smile he was famous for) .. lol. About a month ago he went to the dentist because he thought a jaw tooth had gone bad and needed pulled. The Dentist saw the Cancer immediately and told David he needed a biopsy. The Biopsy revealed an advanced Cancer but the doctors (at that time) indicated after surgery David had an 80 percent chance of survival. Within two weeks David would lose around 30-40 pounds and there were tumor(s) the size of a baseball on his lung, his brain, his jaw.. there were even cancerous lesions on his Heart and needless to say it had also spread to his bones and only God knows where else.. He 'coughed' one night and his collarbone broke!
He went downhill very quickly after the collarbone incident.
We (as in Family and Churches) all prayed and continued to stand in Faith believing God for a healing miracle, but Sandi grew weary and said to me "Eve, if God isn't going to heal David then I just pray he takes him quickly and not allow him to suffer much longer"... God honored that prayer as Sandi sang hymns of worship and praise by David's bedside. I know Angels carried David off into eternity Saints.
