Never crossed my mind

[jdvorr]

So today, after a year and a few months, My girlfriend and I decided to part ways. While, it bums me out that I failed at making a relationship work, again, I never even considered having a cigarette. I have a couple packs of Camel Wides in the freezer, in case I ran out of juice. This is the kind of thing that would have had me chain smoking and pacing the floor. So, there is an upside. Will I be bummed out for a while? Yes. Will I be doing harm to myself by smoking like a chimney? NO! .... happens. Certain .... doesn't have to happen, like smoking. Not looking for pity or sympathy. Just happy I didn't light up.

 

[Sherrick]

Good for you, jdvorr! It's those stressful times that really test our resolve. Sounds like you're coming through it with flying colors! Excellent!

 

[BradSmith]

Bitter sweet news for sure. But happy vaping anyway.

 

[JenJen]

Sorry about your break up, but I am happy to hear you weren't even tempted to go back to the smokes. My hubby had to start Chemo and I too have been a bit rattled, but it is a good feeling to know that with the help of V4L, I KNOW I will never be a smoker again!

Hang in there!

 

[msroulette]

JD...so happy you've made it over that hump that says "stress will not make me do it" now throw the smokes away!

 

[Jules22871]

The breakup is a bad thing but look at this way, you were able to prove to yourself that you can get through life without a cigarette. I'm sorry you had to find out this way though. Here's a (((((((BIG hug)))))) for you!

 

[keyzygirl]

Buy a mod,it might cheer you up!

 

[jdvorr]

Buy a mod,it might cheer you up!

Might be a good idea, considering I paid for everything in the relationship. I'll definitely have extra money. She always thought my VK was stupid. She called it my toy cigarette.

 

[msroulette]

She wasn't happy you no longer smelled like smoke????

the tourney sale is still going on! indulge a little...shopping is therapy!!

 

[AppleJack]

You are an inspiration to the rest of us. We CAN give up the analogs. You did good.

 

[jdvorr]

She wasn't happy you no longer smelled like smoke????

the tourney sale is still going on! indulge a little...shopping is therapy!!

I am cleaning my boat today. Fishing is therapy!

 

[ImYourSalt]

Silver lining, eh?

Personally, I don't think I could ever go back to smoking. Way back when, I never thought I'd quit... Oh, how the tables have turned!

 

[rocks82]

you're a better person than I am. When the bf and I broke up on xmas eve? I smoked a cigarette to spite him and blew it in his face. It tasted awful.

Yes, I'm a bad person. But he hates cigarettes and it was CHRISTMAS! That was my only cigarette since August.

stay tough. keep the vape going and hit us up if you need anything

 

[AllCoExPat]

...While, it bums me out that I failed at making a relationship work, again, I never even considered having a cigarette. I have a couple packs of Camel Wides in the freezer, in case I ran out of juice. This is the kind of thing that would have had me chain smoking and pacing the floor. ... Just happy I didn't light up.

That's a huge, jdvorr. Hate to hear the circumstances you found out under, but still... very impressive. Don't know that I'm far enough along in the process to have that kind of success.

 

[maxx]

You want us to hurl typed verbal abuse at her? No extra trouble as long as we are here. Might help....

 

[MacArthurBug]

Sorry to hear about the split. It's great news that you've avoided the analogs though. Hang in there.

 

[beebopnjazz]

Awww...sorry to hear about the break up jd - but your not falling into smoking an analog under stress is HUGE! Way to go!

 

[terrie1]

We all have times of severe stress... mine is that my companion needs a liver transplant, and sometimes we argue, but its wonderful that I pass through those moments "thinking" about a smoke, but never smoking.
P.S. I'm sorry about your breakup. Perhaps you will find the right one now.

 

[Onceupon]

Cheer up. Fourteen thousand people died today from smoking.

 

[plantlvr]

Sorry to hear about your breakup JD, but you just keep vapin away on your 'toy cigarette'! Lot's more fish out there,and i mean that both ways