I've been on ECF for quite a while, and I notice that people find their way to completely cutting out cigarettes in a wide variety of ways.
Some people have success by being very strict with themselves, "I will not smoke again, period". To help with this they do many of the same things recommended by quit smoking workshops and counsellors. They
throw away all their cigarettes, they get rid of all their smoking paraphernalia. They change their routines. It's all very planned out and determined. Many people find this works well, but the downside is that if you slip and have a cigarette you can feel like you failed. Feeling like you failed chips away at your motivation and confidence.
Ecigs do seem to offer another option that deviates from this common advice though, and many people find that cutting back gradually can be quite successful. It takes longer, but a benefit is that there is less pressure and if you end up smoking a cig here and there, you don't consider yourself a failure.
Here's a short summary of my experience... I had tried to quit smoking many times. I tried patches, gum, Wellbutrin, gum, gum, cold turkey, gum. I never succeeded at all. I had 15-20 years of spread out failed attempts to quit. Birthdays would come and go, and I'd say, "I have to stop before I turn 25", "I have to stop before I turn 30", "I'm about to turn 35, I really need to quit this". I found my 40th birthday approaching and had lost all motivation. I knew I would never quit. It's as simple as that, I would NEVER quit. I was going to die as a smoker, and I had come to accept that. I finished a Ph.D., lost weight, developed good eating and exercise habits, but I would NEVER quit smoking. I had failed at quitting too many times to see any other option.
A neighbor kept telling me about this new gadget she had. She was a heavy smoker, but she said the
ecig thing was pretty good. She hadn't quit with it (she was already diagnosed with terminal cancer, so not much motivation to quit, really). I brushed her off. I had tried so many things, and this sounded like a total gimmick designed to waste even more of my money. She kept nagging. I did some reading. She nagged some more. Finally, to shut her up, I went and got one. I had two half cigarettes after I got that first kit. I think part of the reason this worked for me is that there was no pressure. I didn't think it was going to work, and I had no expectations of a miracle. To my shock, it did work, and those two half cigarettes tasted terrible. I never smoked again. I did quickly graduate to better equipment, thanks to finding ECF, and that probably made a big difference as well.
So, anyway, my point is that people find many pathways to ditching the cigarettes by using ecigs. The right way is the way that works for you. If it takes you a month or a year of gradually cutting back, that is just fine. It's not a race. If you never manage to quit completely, but only cut back to a few a day, that is still much better than smoking a pack or more a day. I do think that most (many?) people who stick with it and make an effort to find
juice and a setup that they really like, will eventually come to find that cigarettes are less and less tolerable. Do what works for you. If pressure wigs you out, take a more relaxed approach. If you are a person that does well with setting your goals in stone and sticking to them, then do it that way.
Eta: I did manage to quit/switch 4 months before my 40th birthday
