I don't think that at all. I was never a smoker basher and still am not. But in
theory, I don't even disagree with you.
I think there is a big difference between arguing a "personal opinon" and putting together a formal argument, in front of a legislature, or courtroom, that is carefully planned and thought out.
No good litigator goes in arguing their personal opinion....they go in arguing points they think they can WIN.
So, when I answer in some of these posts, I am keeping the latter in mind. (I learned this by seeing many medical specialists and if you bring in too many things, they're going to say, like one did to me "I don't work off laundry lists. We can realistically work on 2-3 things this visit." And he was totally right! ) Since he taught me that, I have very fruitful appointments where a lot gets accomplished.
So----I find it of utmost imporance to choose one's battles, and don't nit-pick that which will have the least impact on the result you want.
Personally, in real life, I am pretty liberal about what other people do, as I grew up in the tumultuous 60's and 70's, and have never been a stick-in-the-mud about what people should be allowed to do. I've been in many rivers where a bunch of flower children showed up to skinny dip. (where I live now, you would be arrested and quickly). I am a live and let live type person, and think people should get out of other people's lives about a
lot of things..... condoms, morning after pills, birth control pills, alcohol, religion, who can marry, what they should be able to do with their own body, and many other blankety blanks that I can't talk about here.
Unfortunately, I'm living in a conservative state in the South where I can't order a glass of wine with dinner, and can't order eliquid on-line. My young friend who produced a belly dancing (artful kind) theatrical event has been pressured not to do that again, and a friend of a friend who started a Buddhist discussion group had crosses burned on his front lawn. Yet everyone here is supposedly a freedom fighter/tea party/libertarian. (I guess it only applies to guns and having confederate flags on your truck). I can assure you that if I were in public, at a street fair, and "spiked" my cola with some Jack Daniels, I may be subject to being asked to remove the cap on my drink, for inspection, and possibly cited and/or arrested (and yes, it's happened to some tourists who came here a few years ago.)
Was it better in liberal New England when I lived there? No. Just different. It was higher density population, and I had people call me in for defying the leash laws on the beach, when it was deserted, not fit for man or beast, in February and 0 degrees, when not a human soul was out there.....when I let my dogs off leash to run. And promptly got called in by somebody a block away who saw me out their window

Or maybe with binoculars, who knows.
Now we have Facebook, so that everybody can mind everybody else's business even more!!!
I'm saying that its a "can of worms" and how these things go is directly based on the cultural, religious, social and legal belief system
that is customary in the region in which you are living, as well as the tax and $$ benefits that the people in charge of things can realize and suck out of you.
Therefore you have to pick the battles that you think you
can win. And if you are
any kind of negotiator, in real life, not words on a forum, you carefully decide what is most important and let the other stuff fall by the wayside. Bring plenty of smaller chips that you are willing to give up, because otherwise, you have zero bargaining power.
And, if you think you are going to "win it all" that very philosophy will set you up to become a loser. And you
will walk away with
nothing. (a few of the posts i read on ECF leave me wondering if some of the people who write them have even even been in a work place where they had to negotiate even a simple privilege?? with other people in real life. ).
So back to topic: Age restrictions are definitely a chip I am willing to toss across the table.

Not a big picture item IMHO