Hey, Curly! First off, welcome!
Secondly, there are a TON of options for you with vaping. If you thought there were too many options when it was a choice between Marlboro Reds, Lights, and Ultra Lights, this can seem overwhelming. You've come to the right place though. Lots of smart people here, and they've managed to point me in the right direction more than once.
If you're stuck on something that looks like a real smoke and isn't too expensive to start out with, check out a REALLY inexpensive kit that I think will give you the MOST bang for your buck. At this price ($21 bucks as of right now), you can try it out and not feel too bad if you want to switch to another model later:
TITAN 510 E-NIC Compact Starter Kits. 6 Colors
Just for the record, Totally Wicked has what they call a "Yo-Yo" sale going on right now. Basically they have different discounts on their full range of stuff that switches every few minutes. I managed to pick up a basic Tornado kit earlier for $23 (normally $40 or so). Just picked it up to have spare parts for my eGo, but diffinately check out their sale prices right now... they're making it pretty cheap to start vaping.
Good luck!