Hang in there, dirtybirdy. Give it a little time. It's prolly a paradigm shift for you and will take a little tweaking to dial in the perfect vape for you.
Try different drip tips if you can - the longer it is, the cooler the vape; also experiment with dt hole diameters. You can also adjust the coil placement to affect TH, vapor production and some of the heat. Moving it up or down relative to the air hole(s) (not sure what atty you're using, suspect it's the RM2) will affect these changes.
Lastly, adjusting the resistance of the coil will change the vape characteristics - higher resistance generally gets you a cooler vape.
Congrats on the new unit and welcome to reoville
