It wasn't meant to be offensive, I'm sorry you took it that way
No problem, kristen. It came across as being slightly er... 'blunt', but I accept that you didn't mean it that way. The net isn't the best method of communication and it's all too easy to misunderstand.
Believe me, I've never bought into the second-hand smoke claims, and my POV certainly isn't based on any of that stuff. Funnily enough, I was talking about this with my mother the last time I was home in scotland. (We both think our various relatives who are parents are paranoid to an extreme degree). She said, 'When you were kids, EVERYONE smoked, and they did it in front of the kids. I've never heard of anyone in our family or friends who got a smoking-related illness through it"
I'm not sure how to phrase this and not sound stupid, but my attitude is based on simple politeness. I was brought up to say Please and Thank You, be polite to others and respect their wishes. If my family, (paranoid as they are), and friends don't want me to smoke in front of their kids, I won't. And I won't vape either. To me, it would be like pushing my habit in their faces. That may sound dumb, but it's the way I am. I vape for my own health, and it's no big hardship to put it in my pocket for a while.
I understand that you want to educate people, but I feel many people have an ingrained aversion to seeing people smoke, and I don't see them changing their opinion with vaping. Even if it's explained to them to the last detail, they'll still see it as another form of a habit they prefer to avoid. And seeing it will only reinforce their dislike of the whole business.
I live in a country (italy) where the PC brigade are still regarded with a healthy scepticism, but italy has had smoking bans in cinemas and public transport since the 1960s. Even if vaping became completely legal, doing it on, say a bus or a train here, would only provoke people. That's something I think vapers should avoid.
Still, as I say, that's only my opinion.
mac