Telling a girl she's beautiful

[NeXtDimensionVaping]

I have a question... I tend to over think everything... But today I pulled up to get my car washed and I looked up and there was a 20 yr old girl standing there asking me what type of wash I would like. And for the first time in my life I was speechless talking to a woman. The first thought that popped into my head was to tell her that she was beautiful and ask her if you wanted to go out sometime. But then I start over think everything and bit my tongue and just got my car washed. Would it have been weird if I told her that she was beautiful and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime?

There's women I find attractive and interesting and stuff but it's not often that I'm swept off my feet like I was today by this sheer presidence of a woman.

I'm debating whether I should go back in a weeks time or so to get my car washed and hope she's there and talk to her and ask her if she wants to go out.

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[Iffy]

But, does she DIY?

 

[AzPlumber]

If you're also 20ish no problem, if you're 50, yeah, that would be a little weird.

 

[NeXtDimensionVaping]

If you're also 20ish no problem, if you're 50, yeah, that would be a little weird.

I just turned 20

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[LouisLeBeau]

Lol.. To know what I know at 50, and be 20. Dood. Ask early, and often. Might be a no, but if ya don't, you'll NEVER know. A lil "softening" with some wit and charm for a coupla washes will improve your odds dramatically.

 

[montara]

Well if this just happened today, and she struck you enough to post here dont delay... Go sprinkle some dirt on your car and go back now. If she rebmembers you good. Just say you drove through a construction zone, got your clean car dirty... and you like to take care of your things... and what 'ya doing later?

 

[DoubleEwe]

If she is as nice as you say then she probably gets hit on a lot, working in a place like that (customer facing etc).
Making her laugh or something would be a good start, it would be very rare for her to just want to go out with a random guy who asks her out without some rapport beforehand. That is unless the attraction between you two is similar to the attraction between Kim Kardashian and her reflection.

 

[daleron]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

 

[AndriaD]

I have a question... I tend to over think everything... But today I pulled up to get my car washed and I looked up and there was a 20 yr old girl standing there asking me what type of wash I would like. And for the first time in my life I was speechless talking to a woman. The first thought that popped into my head was to tell her that she was beautiful and ask her if you wanted to go out sometime. But then I start over think everything and bit my tongue and just got my car washed. Would it have been weird if I told her that she was beautiful and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime?

There's women I find attractive and interesting and stuff but it's not often that I'm swept off my feet like I was today by this sheer presidence of a woman.

I'm debating whether I should go back in a weeks time or so to get my car washed and hope she's there and talk to her and ask her if she wants to go out.

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No woman, ever in the history of women, minds being told she's beautiful. Whether she wants to go out with you is a different matter entirely -- someone else may have already noticed her beauty and put a ring on her finger. But nothing ventured, nothing gained; it took me forever to realize that my best friend (a guy) was actually in love with me, because he wouldn't open his mouth and just tell me! But we worked it out, and celebrated our 28th wedding anniversary back in July.

Andria

 

[Iffy]

NeXtDimensionVa,

I was all too flippant with my first response; my apologies!

Seriously, upon the next encounter just be sincerely honest and tell her that you ever so much appreciate her beauty; plus, you were too stunned to say so on your first encounter with her (a lil' confession is not necessarily a bad thing).

Rationally observe her reaction(s) and listen closely to her response! IF she's lady, she'll appreciate your compliment and 'let you know' where you can go from there.

Being married for 46+ years to my bride, you may not need my input in this arena. BUT, true women never reject a compliment as long as the praise is sincere (aka keep your eyes on her eyes).

BTW, being smitten by true beauty is a rare and cherished event, regardless of the source. It becomes an essential part of your existence in latter years! May you have many...

Please keep us 'abreast' of your next encounter with her; and my best wishes for you!

 

[NeXtDimensionVaping]

So I went back today, but all I could muster up was "hello thank you have a good day" lol. Next time I will ask her out!

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[Kprthevapr]

So I went back today, but all I could muster up was "hello thank you have a good day" lol. Next time I will ask her out!

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Third times a charm!
I hope she'll take a liking to you!

 

[HauntedMyst]

ok, you need to go big. Drop whatever you are doing and get yourself a tuxedo, a dozen roses and Sumo Wrestlers Mawashi thong. Put on the Mawashi and go dive in the mud. Get filthy. Coated. Caked. Walk up to the car wash and tell her you want the Super Clean package and tell her to meet you on the other side. The go through the car wash on foot (and don't get all pansy about it yelling "the hot wax burns!!! I can't see damn it!" Be a man and suck it up. You are trying to get a date with this woman and she doesn't date pansies) and get clean but before you emerge, put on the tuxedo and grab the roses and walk out and say "You are the most beautiful woman in the world, I would be honored to take you out Friday night." If she says yes, your aces. If she says "I can't, I have a boyfriend" well then, that's on you for no doing your home work and finding that out and putting a hit on him before you walked through the car wash.

 

[Miata GT]

I wouldn't wait or make up a coy excuse for going back. If she blew you away the first time go back and see if she does again. Use that and let her know. I'm sure she gets a lot of attention but that doesn't mean she can't see sincerity when it comes along.