WOW WoH! ...and I have to ask, but what kind of horse?? I somehow got looped into the Arabs o_o They're insane
but I love em!- Status
WOW WoH! ...and I have to ask, but what kind of horse?? I somehow got looped into the Arabs o_o They're insane
but I love em!
Wow! You have a lot to be proud of too. I loved the part about training the untrainable horse and if I'm ever in need of emergency med treatment I hope you are around.
WOW WoH! ...and I have to ask, but what kind of horse?? I somehow got looped into the Arabs o_o They're insane
Arabs are insane, but they're so beautiful that you just can't help but love them! My very first horse was an Arab named Banshee. This horse was a Quarter Horse. The people we bought her from had bought her at auction. She had been terribly abused, so much so that they had to put her in cross ties to bridle her. They just didn't have time to help her once calfing season started and decided to sell her. They didn't try to hide the fact that she was skittish and hard to handle, but something about her just called out to me. I loved her so much and worked my ... off to earn her trust. She was worth every minute of getting bucked off and head butted.
That's sorta like Drifter... but different in a way, too. He wasn't abused or anything... but BOY was he MEAN. When I first saw him, nobody could be NEAR him when they were loading him into a paddock from a trailer. All he did was scream, kick, and buck. If you went to the fence, he would gallop and slide to a stop and kick at you and bite. CRAZY MEAN horse. Then a year, later, he started to somewhat calm down. I rode him in an intermediate riding lesson, and he did REALLY well, I mean my trainer was shocked because she wanted me to learn how difficult horses can be
But after my lesson, he was up for another lesson and within five minutes he threw her. My trainer then asked if I could untack him and get him all set, since he was good with me and they needed to get the girl to the hospital since she broke her leg. So, it was me and Drifter, in the hall of the barn. I slid on his halter and his crossties, and it just... happened and I fell in love. He and I were like the "outcasts" in the barn, since some of the riders didn't really like me. While I untacked him, he nuzzled me and hugged me with his head and a few barn workers that knew him just dropped their jaw. It was the best feeling in the world, so I know what you mean about them calling to you WoH, horses are so good at picking US out!
I had the chance to be the Family and Spouse Representative for MacDill A.F.B., Tampa Fl. to T.A.C. headquarters in Langley Va. I lectured to 2, 3, and one 4 star General about what families need. I changed the way they treat Women in A.F. hospitals. At that time we were treated more like Airmen in cattle calls sitting in open halls in just open back gowns. We never had choices in male or female staff to do procedures..better left to Women and were called dependents NOT spouses.
There wasn't much I could do about Women in the service but after one General said that Women couldn't do a man's job and said that Women had to take too much time off for childbirth and recovery. I pointed out that according to the head of MacDill's hospital, that more Men took more time off then Women for any reason due to sporting accidents and drink related accidents. That put a cork in him!
I have had a wonderful life and done lots of things I am proud of and few things I choose not to repeat anywhere, anytime!
My pride though is tied up with my pain in the ...., wonderful, U.S.A.F. retired Hubby and Kids and grands. They are all my loves and friends as well as my crazy!
There wasn't much I could do about Women in the service but after one General said that Women couldn't do a man's job and said that Women had to take too much time off for childbirth and recovery. I pointed out that according to the head of MacDill's hospital, that more Men took more time off then Women for any reason due to sporting accidents and drink related accidents. That put a cork in him!
I have had a wonderful life and done lots of things I am proud of and few things I choose not to repeat anywhere, anytime!
My pride though is tied up with my pain in the ...., wonderful, U.S.A.F. retired Hubby and Kids and grands. They are all my loves and friends as well as my crazy!
Im proud of becoming a great mother, and fighting for my children no matter what the cost. Im proud that I've detached myself from unhealthy people and relationships.
Good for you MK. I like a strong minded women who will speak up, say what's one her mind, stands her ground and not back down just because the person she's talking to is bigger or has more stars on his shoulder. I knew there was a reason I like you. 
and because of your hilarious sense of humor.
and because of your hilarious sense of humor. 
I'm proud to be getting to know all of you - and to see the strength and caring that women have.
Thanks everyone. T, I may speak my mind, but Mike was home with the kids shaking in his boots..he was worried about being sent to Iceland again because of my "opinions". I figured it was a once in a lifetime chance to have my voice heard. So many of the other delegates from the other T.A.C. bases were too scared to say boo.
But after a very boring "do" at the officers club in our honor..we hijacked the bus sent to take us back to our quarters and went line dancing! Talk about hungover the next day! The 4 star Generals wife singled me out while we were taking pictures (in the bright morning sunlight..groan) to say that we will not be borrowing any more buses while we are here..right Mrs H?..I don't know how she knew it was me!
But after a very boring "do" at the officers club in our honor..we hijacked the bus sent to take us back to our quarters and went line dancing! Talk about hungover the next day! The 4 star Generals wife singled me out while we were taking pictures (in the bright morning sunlight..groan) to say that we will not be borrowing any more buses while we are here..right Mrs H?..I don't know how she knew it was me!
Wow You ladies are all so amazing, I'm honored to know you all!
Let's see... I'm proud of myself for getting out of unhealthy relationships, and raising my children on my own. Its not easy, but I'm not afraid to ask for help when I need it, which is usually when I'm at the end of my rope! I'm also proud of myself for sticking with my son every single minute he was ill. Many parents had or chose to leave their children during extended hospital stays (I understand those who have to work and can't get away from it, but the ones who chose I can't comprehend) and I'm proud and grateful that I stayed with him. He's a compassionate, bright child who understands some very advanced medical practices because I was there explaining it to him even though he was barely 2. And I'm proud that he never gave up. I am raising (since they are still young lol) 2 little boys who are polite, empathetic, and accepting of others.
I'm proud I am strong enough to stay with the man I love even though he lives in another country, some 650 miles from me, and that we have been able to make it work.
Lastly, I'm proud of myself for standing up for what I believe in and what I believe is right, and in some small way making a difference in the lives of those I love, and their ability to be themselves.
Let's see... I'm proud of myself for getting out of unhealthy relationships, and raising my children on my own. Its not easy, but I'm not afraid to ask for help when I need it, which is usually when I'm at the end of my rope! I'm also proud of myself for sticking with my son every single minute he was ill. Many parents had or chose to leave their children during extended hospital stays (I understand those who have to work and can't get away from it, but the ones who chose I can't comprehend) and I'm proud and grateful that I stayed with him. He's a compassionate, bright child who understands some very advanced medical practices because I was there explaining it to him even though he was barely 2. And I'm proud that he never gave up. I am raising (since they are still young lol) 2 little boys who are polite, empathetic, and accepting of others.
I'm proud I am strong enough to stay with the man I love even though he lives in another country, some 650 miles from me, and that we have been able to make it work.
Lastly, I'm proud of myself for standing up for what I believe in and what I believe is right, and in some small way making a difference in the lives of those I love, and their ability to be themselves.
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Wow! I really enjoyed reading that. I would be proud to call you a friend. Friend request coming atcha. By friend, I mean a real friend. You sound like a very strong women and have a lot to be proud of.
Rain, I agree with TM 100%
I love the fact that you always speak your mind , and do it kindly, MK. (gotta love the bus hijack too!)
I love the fact that you always speak your mind , and do it kindly, MK. (gotta love the bus hijack too!)
Would it be too personal to ask which country your man lives in?
Not at all TM! he lives up in Canada, Nova Scotia. *sigh* what a beautiful place! And thank you both 
Nova Scotia. I'd like to go there some day. Since I didn't strike out on my first question, I'll try a couple more if they are not too personal. Just say so if they are. I'm as curious as a cat. How long have you known (what's his name?) and do you think you will been able to live closer together anytime soon?
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