Jode, I agree with you. I see it as much more as well. Humans have been smoking stuff since the beginning of humanity. Same with caffeine, alcohol, and ingesting a host of natural things that affect how we feel. It's in our wiring. Always has been and always will be. Denying that is silly. Of course there are people who choose to do none of the above. I choose coffee and vaping. I don't drink or anything else but every single person out there has a right to choose their own lifestyle and I'm not going to be the one to push the angle of making decisions for people.
I see vaping as a modern health miracle. Something that has been sought after for many decades now. Something that should be freely available to anyone over the age of 18 to partake in. The whole "banning from minors" or "age restriction" thing is only window dressing. Lets be honest. We were all young once. The only thing that stops kids from doing whatever is personal decision or lack of availability. But with young people, lack of availability has nothing to do with age restrictions. I got into far more dangerous things than vaping. Do I encourage minors to try vaping? Absolutely not. Does anyone believe restrictions will stop minors from doing whatever? Not a chance.
IMO- the big reason minors get under the skin of many here is the simple fact that the actions of minors could have an impact on the outcome of a very tenuous time for vapers in the US. Lets say (hypothetically) that the dust settles, regs are passed, and vaping is totally here to stay in the same form it is today. Whew! It's over. We held on to what we've all feared will be taken away. Will the attitude towards clouds chasers, never smokers, and minors partaking change? I believe it will.
I've been vaping for 2 years. Many on the forum for much longer. When I joined ECF, it was primarily a melting pot for smokers trying to quit. Heck, it was almost exclusively just that and was for years prior. There has been a big shift as the industry grows exponentially. Now people joining for info who have never smoked are commonplace. And a lot of long time members don't like that. It's creating a different and more hostile environment. It's becoming political now with 2 parties butting heads. It should pass over time.
My personal opinion on vaping is it really is about as harmful as drinking coffee every day. Could be a little bit more because of the inhalation aspect but I also think living in a smog city is probably more dangerous. Let's say vaping is scientifically proven to be a real and acute respiratory health risk. Could it be engineered to mitigate the risk to levels that aren't even worth worrying about? Yes, I believe it certainly can.
Lastly, young and dumb get older and smarter. Minors or even late teens/early 20 somethings who partake in the fad or "cool" part of the lifestyle won't likely be doing it for long. At least the majority anyways. I'm interested in seeing how hard it is for non-smokers who vape to try and quit. Hard to answer that question for a while but my money is on quitting vaping being exponentially easier than trying to get out from under the vice grip cigarettes.