I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend.
thank you. I like to think she's happy I vape today,,,,,I dreamed she told me to get an e-cig,,,,,,,so I did, and here I am
I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend.
I remember my first cigarette too. I was 15. I had grown up in a cloud of smoke but had never considered doing it myself...then in a moment of frustrated teenage angst I decided to secretly "get back at everybody" by having a cigarette. It wasn't hard to steal one of my mom's, she had packs in drawers, packs on the counters, cartons on top of the fridge, packs in her coat pockets, packs in the car. I lit up and took my first puff in my bedroom and felt totally fine. I never coughed and never got ill. I felt a tiny bit light-headed with my first few drags.
I "needed" at least a pack a day within the month and within a few months I was stopping between every single class bell to draw desperately on butts in the girl's room.
Yes, airplanes and busses had those little ashtrays in the arms...
Amtrak had the bar car...my favorite place to hang out when traveling smoke at will
Then they confined everyone to the 'smoking car' which was like a smelly fog...
They probably have the NO SMOKING policy everywhere...no more 'smoking cars'
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Woops, dating myself........ 60
Amtrak has banned ecigs too. I'm traveling by Amtrak in November.
So true, I had forgotten how much things have changed until this thread reminded me ... I grew up with two smoking parents, and my dad was the worst!! But as a kid I remember that my parents could, and did smoke everywhere we went ... you could even smoke inside the mall, as you walked around from store to store. Those were the days, but I don't miss them!
Amtrak has banned ecigs too. I'm traveling by Amtrak in November.
I do I miss real freedom, sorry had to go there
Eh...personally I miss the old days in a few sentimental ways, but honestly, if I were to raise my kids today the way we were raised in the 70s I'd probably turn MYSELF in to Child Protective Services, LOL.
We seriously missed death by a narrow margin approximately once a week. More often for boys.
You know, damn pull up your rocker; sheesh lol
But remember when boys used to be able to fight on the playground and maybe they got
a detention. Then later they were forced to shake hands and became friends. Or maybe a good .... kickin
chilled a bully out.
Hummmmmmm gee I don't remember kids bringing guns to school back then a going on any shooting sprees.
Lol think about it, is it really safer now ;-)?
For example, I remember for a while it was all the rage for boys to jump off the roof. Yes, that's right...jump off the roof. Pick a house where the mom wasn't home for a couple of hours in a loose sham of covering up one's activities and then dare one another to jump off a roof into a swimming pool, onto a tree a couple/few feet away from the house, into a sheet held by the other boys...or just down into the bushes...what the heck????
And when you told your parents about it...they'd shake their heads and go, "Oh well, if Jimmy wants to kill himself, then I guess he gets what he deserves for being an idiot." NOBODY called Jimmy's mom to say "Hey, by the way...your son was JUMPING OFF YOUR ROOF today. You may want to attempt to put some sort of stop to that before he, you know, dies."
I think parents figured if we killed or crippled ourselves doing "stupid things" then it was just natural selection or something. Darwinian, if you will. We'd tell and re-tell an old joke off our parents' continuous assertion "Don't come running to me if you hurt yourself in X, Y or Z way!" You know, like..."If you break your leg, don't come running to me." "If you gouge your eyes out, don't come crying to me." Etc.
Ah. The dangerous, parenting-free 70s.