I don't know--and can't ask you here--what kind of tanks you're using; I have never experienced stripped threads on a tank after a couple of months.
I agree with tmcase--don't over tighten, don't unscrew them unless you really have to to refill, or get a simple airflow control device (made by Smoktech):
Tank Airflow Controller
Just screw your tank into the controller and leave it there. If you have to remove the tank from the battery, unscrew the controller and not the tank to protect the tank's threading.