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I ALWAYS have time for my friends!!!
uuuuuhhhhhh u got no time for me??????
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I think my vape mail should be here tomorrow.It was lost(in limbo) for 2 day's,between Elk Grove Village,IL,and Champaign,IL.That's a 3 hour drive.It is now 2 hour from me.When it was in Elk Grove it was an 1 hr. 50 min. from me.The usps need to get there stuff together,no wonder they are losing money.They do everything half ....Sorry,needed to vent,had to buy analog's yesterday and today,ran out of juice.When I find the rite juice and set up,I will quit for good and order way ahead of time.
I totally appreciate your defense of our mutual friend and can appreciate your point of view..however in my humble opinion when you use the term "scrawny bit(hes" and choose to label women in that manner then it makes you appear just as intolerant and ignorant as the people referring to others as "fat". I am by no means calling you ignorant or intolerant...just sharing my feelings on the matter with you...as I feel that one of my close friends took offense to your comment. 
uuuuuhhhhhh u got no time for me??????
Redd, always have time ... read below.
I totally appreciate your defense of our mutual friend and can appreciate your point of view..however in my humble opinion when you use the term "scrawny bit(hes" and choose to label women in that manner then it makes you appear just as intolerant and ignorant as the people referring to others as "fat". I am by no means calling you ignorant or intolerant...just sharing my feelings on the matter with you...as I feel that one of my close friends took offense to your comment.
ok, just for the record - the aforementioned, ahem, "scrawny bit(hes" ... has nothing to do with physical attributes. so, any ladies (or guys) that read that, and are less than voluptuous, please do not be disheartened.
when i say "scrawny bit(hes", i mean that pack of nasty, snotty, 2 faced, evil, conniving idiots that are more interested in money, power, advancement, and at whatever cost. the implied "scrawniness" is between the ears. it starts in jr high ... one group of kids will clump together, benignly at first. as time goes on, they start getting more competitive, and feeding off each others insecurities, looking for any perceived weakness and attacking in an vain attempt to make themselves look better by comparison.
so, KK - like i said, if this were VF or another uh ... "less moderated" forum ... my initial post might have been eloquent and colorful enough to have conveyed my anger in a less seemingly derogatory light. however, when i typed that last night, i was sitting on the couch, and constantly backspacing and re-typing as i went, to just get everything condensed into a form that would not be just a constant box full of asterisk.
I have been on the receiving end of this crap since i was about 10. ya, i was that fat kid with the glasses, that didn't care about sports, and hung out with the nerds, had the horrible wardrobe, and all of that. some people in my life think that i am a jerk, or too sarcastic, or even dead inside (thanks, MIL ... for posting that on FB) ... what i am is armored. i have developed a very low tolerance for other people's crap. i will also defend people from other people's crap, to the point of stupidity. can't really help it, at this point it is reflex / muscle memory / whatever.
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KT listen sweetie you could be as big as a house you would still be beautiful!! The beauty you have in your heart is more important and we all see that in you. Not your physical size. I'm a heavy woman myself and my thought is this person is jealous of you because you ARE A BETTER PERSON THAN THEM!!!! The world makes it so that people think they have to be skinny and beautiful to be a good person and this is so not true. Our heart is what makes us and the way we deal with other people. So I'm with everyone else this person needs to be stopped. To show them that it is not right to do that to ANYONE!! Like I said IMO this person is intimidated by you as you probably do your job a whole lot better than them.
Windy the lil one is a cutie!!!
Congratulations Venus on becoming a Vet!!!!
KT listen sweetie you could be as big as a house you would still be beautiful!! The beauty you have in your heart is more important and we all see that in you. Not your physical size. I'm a heavy woman myself and my thought is this person is jealous of you because you ARE A BETTER PERSON THAN THEM!!!! The world makes it so that people think they have to be skinny and beautiful to be a good person and this is so not true. Our heart is what makes us and the way we deal with other people. So I'm with everyone else this person needs to be stopped. To show them that it is not right to do that to ANYONE!! Like I said IMO this person is intimidated by you as you probably do your job a whole lot better than them.
Windy the lil one is a cutie!!!
Congratulations Venus on becoming a Vet!!!!
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OK guys and gals. On the point of being scrawny or not being scrawny... physically that is. I would probably fall into the category of the scrawny, less than voluptuous group. LOL It doesn't bother me. I am only 5 feet tall, so I got teensy down to an art form.
On the other hand, my daughter, my babygirl, my cherished infant and my heart, who is now a mother and wife of her own self. Is and has always been a big girl. Her husband, fell in love with her and continues to love her simply because she is the most beautiful girl in the world.
I have witnessed first hand what these bug eyed devils can do to a girl's or guy's self love and self esteem and suck all the confidence out, those kind of germs the world would just be better off without in my opinion. You can solace yourself, as I taught her, those people are without exception looking for someone to suck out of because they have so little self esteem themselves. They are to be pitied and carefully avoided, lest some of their nastiness get on you.
It is not the size of a person that makes them big or small, it's the size of their heart.
katee has a big heart and redd does too and all the people on here. That's why we are so cool!
hugs and love
morri
On the other hand, my daughter, my babygirl, my cherished infant and my heart, who is now a mother and wife of her own self. Is and has always been a big girl. Her husband, fell in love with her and continues to love her simply because she is the most beautiful girl in the world.
I have witnessed first hand what these bug eyed devils can do to a girl's or guy's self love and self esteem and suck all the confidence out, those kind of germs the world would just be better off without in my opinion. You can solace yourself, as I taught her, those people are without exception looking for someone to suck out of because they have so little self esteem themselves. They are to be pitied and carefully avoided, lest some of their nastiness get on you.
It is not the size of a person that makes them big or small, it's the size of their heart.
katee has a big heart and redd does too and all the people on here. That's why we are so cool!
hugs and love
morri
Thanks again guys. I really do love all of you so much.
sidenote: my dad could tell something was bothering me today at work (yes my dad works with me) so he made me tell him. He is giving me till the end of the day to inform my boss of what happened. Or he is going to confront the Night shift Sups. Since I don't want my father to lose his job, looks like I'm talking to my boss.....
i really don't want to though
sidenote: my dad could tell something was bothering me today at work (yes my dad works with me) so he made me tell him. He is giving me till the end of the day to inform my boss of what happened. Or he is going to confront the Night shift Sups. Since I don't want my father to lose his job, looks like I'm talking to my boss.....
i really don't want to though
KT I forgot to congratulate you on the 60lbs that is just great!! I too have lost 30lbs since I quit smoking analogs. I know I know it's back ... wards lol usually you gain when you quit. But I like to be different lmao.
Thanks again guys. I really do love all of you so much.
sidenote: my dad could tell something was bothering me today at work (yes my dad works with me) so he made me tell him. He is giving me till the end of the day to inform my boss of what happened. Or he is going to confront the Night shift Sups. Since I don't want my father to lose his job, looks like I'm talking to my boss.....
i really don't want to though
You will feel 100 times better once you do it. Keep your chin up. You deserve better than the way you were treated.
It is a tough situation, I really do not envy you on having to report it, but on the other hand something needs to be done.
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"Bit(hes" come in all shapes and sizes. Scrawny has nothing to do with it. My wife is teeny tiny as well and has had the "big and beautiful" crowd come down on her like being small is an intentional insult to them. Every group and demographic has a certain percentage that are just A-holes to the rest.
I agree wholeheartedly....around here we are definately having an ...... drought....as a matter of fact they are so abundant that there should be a sale on them every weekend around here.
Thank you KT
But REALLY pat yourself on the back that's a lot and hard work too.
My dream,wish and hope for the world that we all get along and no one is better than the other we are all equal. Just my dreams, wishes and hopes.
But REALLY pat yourself on the back that's a lot and hard work too.
My dream,wish and hope for the world that we all get along and no one is better than the other we are all equal. Just my dreams, wishes and hopes.
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