tmcase, I know you might not be what ya wanna hear but all this evidence points to a short. The early glowing top coil, and the resistance being so much lower than it should be.......these just scream that the wick is shorting out somewhere, maybe at the coil or maybe at the
tank body.
Wanna test the theory? As a test, remove you wick completely and connect just the coil by itself. Set voltage down a lil bit and test the resistance.......betcha it will be right about where ya want it. I also use 34ga wire and the same wraps should get about 2.5 ohms.
If it does come out at the right ohms then fire the coil, I am willing to bet that it will glow nice and even from the center of the coil out to the legs with no "hot-spot" on the legs.
I have one of these atomizers on the way but I have been able to eliminate shorting on both my G-
tank-US and my bliSS and they hit perfect every time.
Good luck man..