Other than the Atty, you described my Builds to a T.
I had the same issues when I first started dripping. Too Small a Drip-Well. So, that's why I bought my first Magma Clone. After getting an RDA with a 5-6mm Drip-Well, I could load it up and do minimal wicking as you have described and hit that puppy hard as I please without having to feed it every 4-5 firings. Also, the dry-hit fits are now almost nonexistent. I even point-trim mine to maximize Juice Well capacity yet still get great juice flow to the Coils. In theory, that actually increases the Wicking Action as flow tends to be naturally increased and motivated by the "small-to-large" Conduit which is in keeping with Fluid Dynamics. In my experience, that Theory does bode true.
As said by another already, think no matter what you do with that, there will be continuing issues due to its Shallow Well design. Now, all but one of mine are what I deem as Deep Wells.