Most humans react with emotion. A minority are actual debaters that think with logic instead of emotion. Remember this is a VERY emotional situation for many of us. Some learn to put the emotion part aside to consider the logic behind the scenes. Sometimes it takes a while for that thought process to actually come about. I know it did with me.
The emotion stems from the fact that for many of us, this was probably the last time we would try to quit smoking. If this didn't work...... I was NOT going to try again. Then it seemed like a miracle happened and I actually managed to stop smoking. REMEMBER....we are coming from a place where we were told and BELIEVED the ANTZ logic for Years. To change that way of thinking takes a while. Some may never see there might be a different side. Others slowly get it. Yet still others get it immediately.
If pushed too hard, most will get their back up and not listen to anything. Patience and sound reasoning, without dismissing their thoughts out of hand, generally goes further.
We humans are wired for emotion..... I kind of like that though
The emotion stems from the fact that for many of us, this was probably the last time we would try to quit smoking. If this didn't work...... I was NOT going to try again. Then it seemed like a miracle happened and I actually managed to stop smoking. REMEMBER....we are coming from a place where we were told and BELIEVED the ANTZ logic for Years. To change that way of thinking takes a while. Some may never see there might be a different side. Others slowly get it. Yet still others get it immediately.
If pushed too hard, most will get their back up and not listen to anything. Patience and sound reasoning, without dismissing their thoughts out of hand, generally goes further.
We humans are wired for emotion..... I kind of like that though